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Karine Andrade
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2004-05 Inbound from Brazil
Date of Birth: November 18, 1987
Hometown: Salvador, Bahia, Brazil
Sponsor: Bahia Rotary Club, District 4550, Brazil
Host: Mandarin Rotary Club, District 6970, Florida USA
School: Mandarin High School
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| Bio |
| September 26 Journal - "There were
mosh pits, in which people would run and bump into one another for fun. I
would admit trying that if I could be certain my parents were not going to
read this diary." |
| February 27 Journal - "Wow, I have never experienced so many new things and learned so much! Wow, my
feelings have never been more intense! Wow, time has never gone by so fast! Wow,
I feel so alive!" |
| July 9 Journal - "My dad took
pictures of the historical moment as my sister and mother hugged me. They
hugged me as if they were testing if our hugs felt the same." |
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Karine's
Bio
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I
have always wished to live abroad at some point in my life, and the Rotary
Club of Mandarin District 6970 is giving me the opportunity to do so as an
exchange student at the age of 16. My name is Karine Andrade, and I come
from Salvador, a city in the Northeast of Brazil.
Salvador is on the coast, and has beautiful paradisiacal beaches and opulent
historical monuments, houses and churches. Salvador exhales culture. It has
one of the best carnivals and most known singers of Brazil. I live at the
center of the city with my family in an apartment with my father, Emerson,
my mother, Odete, and sister Natalia. I miss them and all the other members
of my family, and I know that I will eventually miss all of them even more
as time goes by.
Although I long for them once in awhile, the desire to see
the world through another perspective, and to go in an adventure that would
allow me to grow up becoming more independent, mature and knowledgeable
about a different culture made me determined to become an exchange student.
The thought of living in a new environment, with a new family, new friends,
new school and new culture had indeed been developing in my mind for a
considerable amount time, but I have to confess one thing. Not even in my
sweetest dreams had I envisioned such a rich and joyful experience.
Thanks
Karine |
September 26 Journal
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Unlike the other exchange students, I arrived in Jacksonville a
bit earlier than scheduled, precisely on June 13 to participate in a CISV Summer
Village. I was welcomed in the airport by Leah Donnelley, who was the village’s
Camp Director. I spent my first night in Jacksonville at her house, in San
Marco. The next day I moved to the McKay’s, who hosted me for the days
anteceding the village. I spent a week in their home, and I could not forget to
mention them for they were really wonderful to me. I would like to thank them
for their attention and care, because they really make me feel safe to know that
I have them near for support. This feeling that I can count on them, has made me
feel very comfortable in this first year of my life that I spend away from my
parents. Julie, Paul, Nathan, Ryan and Megan, you form a beautiful family, I
appreciate all of you. They also introduced me to their friends the
Blackshear’s, who introduced me to their Brazilian friends the Pascual’s. All of
them very nice people too.On the 17th,
the Summer Village initiated. This time I participated as a Junior
Counselor, because I had participated before in such a camp when I was
eleven in New Zealand as a camper myself. It was an extremely rich
experience, which I have always treasured. To live, for a month, with 12
delegations from different countries is always an indescribable happening.
All together there were 48 kids, from 12 different nations, 12 leaders 21 or
above years old, 6 junior counselors of 16 or 17 years old with different
nationalities, and the staff, six adults, above 21 years from other
locations of the world. Learning a little about the culture, customs, and
developing friendships with people apparently so different fascinates me. I
love it!!!
After the Village ended on July 15, I had a
bit agitated period until the 25th when I would actually start
the year of my life, of my exchange. During this ten day period which I
spent in several different houses here in Jacksonville, I got to know
several people, and undoubtedly perceive that the people here are very good
hosts, for I was always warmly received by every family I lived with. As I
could not say, a very BIG Thank You for the Divertie’s, Young’s, Kalter’s
and Gulliford’s.
Through out this period, I had the
opportunity to get to know better the president our Rotary Club of Mandarin,
Mr. Bill Gulliford and his wife Harriet for a week. They are very sweet. I
had the impression I already knew them for years. I became very fond of
Harriet. We were always in the same wavelength, despite our difference of
age. It is great that we still talk on the phone. I also got to know their
daughter, Catherine who was very fun. You are all in my heart, not only
because at your house I could have as much ice cream and that key lime,
hum…delicious, as much as I wished, but because I truly adore you all!
And it does not stop, I was also at Al’s
house, yes, it is really him who I talk about, our dear Al Kalter. His
family is really nice. His wife, Sue, is very kind. His daughter, Kate, is
very very very cool. She is a great friend. I have gone out with her and her
other friend also called Katie sometimes, and we had a great time. What can
I say about Al to those who do not know him? People, Al is incredible. I
never told him that, and I hope he does not get mad at me, but every time, I
look at him is as if I was facing a genie; one of those genies who lives
inside a lamp, who we can make a wish and they will grant it to us. Being
part of this exchange has always been what I ever wanted, Al. Genially, with
much competence, intelligence and dedication of much of his time, he has
been, in that best way possible, making this dream come true to all of us
exchange students. I cannot leave out from my diary a SUPER THANK YOU.
Finally, on the 25th, Mr. Lindell
and little Sarah picked me up. I was very anxious to meet the whole family.
When I arrived at my new home, the entire family was there waiting to
welcome me. I am now living at a neighborhood called Mandarin. My host dad
is Mr. Michael Lindell, and my host mother is Mrs. Deborah Lindell. They
have four children: the nineteen-year-old twins, Jennifer and Brant, an
eleven-year-old boy, David, and little Sarah, who is seven. I am really
lucky; my host family is WONDERFUL! The family is great.
Everyday when I arrive home, my host mom asks
me how was my day in school. She is very sweet. She makes sure to let me
know that I am like one of her children while I am in the States by giving
me advice, hugs and love when I need. She is a great cook. She has knows how
to make delicious pies. She taught me how to do Pecan Pie. Pecan Pie is my
Brazilian mom’s favorite. I cannot wait to go home and cook Mrs. Lindell's
contest winning recipe. Wait for me, people in Brazil. This pie is going to
be a success!
My host dad, like me, also enjoys very much
going to the gym. One of the things we do together as a family is to work
out. He took me another day to a spinning class, and now I am part of a
volleyball team in the YMCA. One of the members of my host Rotary club, Alan
Vinson, invited me to play in his team. It has been fun. I am excited about
our first tournament.
I pick-up calls
from girls for my eleven year old brother, and it's always fun to say x
number of girls called you today. Sarah is always giving me hugs. She is
extremely cute and funny. Brant is very cool. I always call him when I need
help, and he is willing to help me out. Jennifer is very pretty and I love
talking to her. I am sleeping in her bedroom. She has her own place now
that she is in college. I have to say that I love this family.
August was a
great month. Everything and everyone is new. I am so excited about school.
It is still warm. I got to meet the other exchange students. I am in the
process of adaptation to real life in America.
On the 2nd
I went to the Warped Tour with Kate Kalter and her friends. I have never
been to a Warped Tour before. It was quite an adventure. It was a whole day
concert with many punk and rock bands. There were all sorts of people there.
Some were covered with piercing, others had odd hair colors, but all jumped
and made the sign for hard rock when the bands performed. There were people
“surfing” on the crowd. There were mosh pits, in which people would run and
bump into one another for fun. I would admit trying that if I could be
certain my parents were not going to read this diary. It was great, and I
found out that I really like a band from Jacksonville called Yellowcard.
My school began
August 9th. School is very different. I am studying at Mandarin
High. It has four thousand students. I used to study in a private American
school with four hundred fifty kids from pre-school to senior year in
Salvador. There are so many kids my age at Mandarin. The first day of school
I felt like one of those movie characters that are run over in the hallway,
but now I know my way in the school and I am starting to make friends. On
second day of school, I was in the main office when an upset mother slapped
the secretary on the face. I was a little scared, but now I laugh about what
happened. Can you imagine the scene? Now I am already used to the school,
and my class routines. My favorite subjects in school are American
Government and French. Although some are honors, I am being able to do well
in my classes. A girl from my neighborhood and grade called Alexandra Hughes
gives me ride to and from school everyday. It is awesome how one of my
friends can drive. In Brazil, a driving license is only granted when you are
eighteen years old or older. It is fun driving with Allie and listening
American country music at the maximum volume. Allie invited me to be part of
a club in which she is secretary called Junior Ladies. The Junior Ladies is
a club developed to help the school community and for the girls to
socialize. We are planning on customizing pink shirts, and wear them once a
week. I also cannot wait to be part of the Interact club in my school. It is
a community service club sponsored by Rotary. It is a pleasure to go to
school here everyday.
This month we
had our first orientation weekend where I finally had the opportunity to
meet the other exchange students. When I was in my district in Brazil, I
observed how the foreign exchange students shared a very strong
relationship. It was no different here. Since the very first day, every one
had a very good feeling for those other teenagers who had decided to embark
in the same voyage to an unfamiliar country, culture and household. The
first orientation was a magical moment. We were very excited to get to know
one another, and to hear about the different countries. We were so excited
that we got in trouble for going to bed after our curfew…oops. Our district
youth exchange committee prepared activities to explain us the rules and
expectations of the program, and to integrate the exchange students. (As if,
we needed help to integrate ourselves). We did some interesting activities
at the Montgomery Camp. My favorite was the rappel route. Even though I
started to feel dizzy and scared of fainting from a considerable height, it
was all worth it when I was pushed down attached to the rope. It felt like
flying. By Sunday afternoon we were all friends, and we were very sorry that
the camp was over, and we had to leave, but all of us exchange students have
been in touch and going out together to the movies.
My host family
had hosted an exchange student from Thailand two years ago. It was very
interesting that one of my best exchange student friends is Elle. Elle is an
exchange student from Thailand. She is one of the funniest people I have
ever met. We always have fun together, even though we look and have such
opposite cultures. I invited her to come to my house for a sleep over. We
constantly check on one another and arrange to go out together.
The Rotary
people are great. Mr. Larry Murr and Mr. Robert Overly are very nice
counselors, but I have not needed to contact them for help. Everything is
doing great!
September
started with very sad news, my host father’s father, my host grandfather,
died. I did not have a chance to know him really well, but for what I did I
could see that he was a very cultured man with a great interest in the
world. He had traveled much, including to Brazil. He gave me his card in
case I needed anything. It was not an easy time for my host family. I tried
distracting my little host sister from all the suffering, and helping out as
I could. I attended the funeral. I noticed some differences, such as the
testimony of friends and the serving of food in American funerals. I wish to
register here that I am very sorry for the lost of my host grandfather.
When I decided
to come to Florida, I knew I had the chance of having to face one hurricane,
but not this many. It seems like my presence here attracted all of these
hurricanes. One of my friends from school accuses me to be responsible,
because there have never been so many hurricanes in a season such as this
one. Charley, Frances, and Jeanne are some of the friends I made in America.
During Frances, I spent four days with no electricity. It was quite fun. We
had flashlights. My host siblings and I would play hide and seek in the
dark. Of course, I was glad to have electricity by the fourth day. I hope we
do not loose electricity in this one.
This month I
did a speech about my experiences as an exchange student to a Rotaract group
downtown. Elle and Luisa were also there. All seemed to have liked our
speeches, and revealed much interest on our countries and culture. The
Rotaract President and his wife invited us to go to the Jessica Simpson
concert for the Super Bowl, but we did not make it on time. We ended up
having a very nice dinner in a Tex-Mex restaurant.
This month I
went to my first football game: Mandarin vs. Jackson. Mandarin lost, but I
had fun. I learned that football games are a great way to socialize. You
meet new people as you cheer.
This last
Friday I planned to go to the movies with a friend from my French class, but
when I arrived I did not find her. Soon I met other people from school.
Different cliques invited me to hang out with them. I felt very popular, and
glad to know that I had been making friends in these first month and a half
at Mandarin. After the movie, I found my friend from m French class. We had
dinner together.
This Saturday
my host family and I went to the Imax Theater to watch the movie on Luis and
Clark journey to the American west coast. Later on the day, my host dad told
me he had signed up me for a race. We raced for the Baptist Cancer Center.
My little sister also went. My host Dad really ran. I stayed with Sarah. She
got a little tired so we horse back ride for a while. I really did some
exercise. I love family days like this!
I really feel
at home here, my host family is wonderful. I help them out with house
chores. I am very happy to help as I can, because I know everyone in the
family must do a little to help. I have helped them organize the food
storage closet, the refrigerator, etc. I have also helped my little sister
in her homework. I was very touched to hear from Mrs. Lindell that Sarah
said that she does not want me to go back to Brazil.
This month
unfortunately Livi was very sick. I just want to tell her never to let us
worry like that again, and that I am really happy that she has recovered.
Soon we will be able to go out together and have fun!
The first
couple of days in which I realized that I was not in a long vacation, I
wondered, “What am I doing here? I have a family, friends and school of my
own.” But soon I came to understand that I am one of those lucky people
called exchange students who have two lives. Today, I truly feel like a part
of the Lindell family, a Mandarin High School Mustang, and a Floridian. I
will enjoy my time here as much as I can, because I know that it will be
very hard for me when the day to say good-bye arrives. Keep on reading my
diaries. See you in the next one.
I love y’all,
Karine |
February 27 Journal
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WOW! This is the best American expression to summarize my foreign
exchange for the months of October to the end of February. I just have to say…
Wow, I have never experienced so many new things and learned so much! Wow, my
feelings have never been more intense! Wow, time has never gone by so fast! Wow,
I feel so alive!
I cannot complain; life has been pretty grand.
In October when I was supposed to be going down in the
exchange student cycle of excitement, that is the exchange student emotional
roller coaster, I was still super happy and content with my life here. I had
a trip to Washington DC to look forward to. My first host dad, Mr. Lindell,
was going to attend an international conference of Christian lawyers in the
capital, and he, so generously, decided to take the whole family, including
me, of course, along. We spent almost a week in D.C. The Lindells made sure
to show me all of the important historical monuments. I was very excited. It
was my first time in Washington. I had only known the White House and the
Lincoln Memorial from the news and history classes. In our trip I was able
to see them with my own eyes, and learn a lot about this amazing country,
new people and myself.
It was also a week before elections, and D.C. was rolling.
Democrats and Republicans were publicly expressing their choice for the next
term’s presidency. I had the opportunity to be in that environment and learn
a bit about American politics. In Brazil, I had superficially thought about
the Democratic and Republican ideas for American foreign policy. Being in
Washington D.C. and in the US made me aware of their domestic policies, and
to better understand American politics as a whole. During the elections, my
American family and friends constantly asked me about my political views and
which party I would support if I was an American myself. Well, tough
questions, and by reading the exchange student book back home, I learned
that with Americans one does not discuss religion or politics. I will just
leave it as a secret that I will never reveal. After all, my first American
family members are Republicans and my second family members are Democrats.
I’ll never tell…
Another interesting thing about this trip was that I was
able to participate in the International Conference of Christian lawyers.
There I talked to lawyers from France, South America and Africa. I even
became a bit inclined to change my decision of going to medical school. The
conference’s lawyers and getting to know Mr. Lindell made me realize that
there are many righteous lawyers in the world.
In Washington D.C., I was able to bond even more with my
first host family. One night, all of us went to the lobby to listen to alive
jazz. I have great memories of dancing with the Lindells and having a lovely
time.
When I came home from Washington I was feeling great and
still very motivated to keep trying hard in school. In November, I became
really sad for the first time. “No one is iron,” is an old Brazilian saying
that means that all of us are not made of a solid metal resistant to
whatever it may come our way. We are human beings with emotions and very
soft and delicate hearts; and therefore, becoming very emotional at some
point in my exchange year was more than natural and expected. My sister’s
birthday is November 7th, and it was on that day that I had my little
breakdown. At that point, it had already been more than five months since I
had left home. I was missing my family immensely. I wanted very badly to be
part of my sister’s birthday celebration. At the same time, I also knew that
she was applying to be a foreign exchange student, and that made me realize
that I wouldn’t be living with her for more than two years. Even though I
loved my life here, I missed my home and my family more than I have ever
felt before in my life. I will not lie; many tears did drop down my cheeks.
But I had to face it, the Lindells were just so wonderful, and I would feel
even worst if I hurt their feeling because I was crying. They were trying
their best to make my exchange year a fairy tale. They helped me with
whatever I needed, and made sure to take me to little family trips around
Northeast Florida and South Georgia that I will always keep in my memory and
treasure. And by the way, I have to confess you guys something, my exchange
year has been a real life fairy tale with a bit of drama, heroes and a lot
of fraternal and paternal type love. Since I always feel better when I wake
up, I decided to go to sleep. I slept for 13 hours. No kidding. The 13 hours
of sleep + listening to country music + praying helped me immensely, and
soon I was back to my normal state.
By mid November I was very very very happy. It was my
birthday!!! On the eighteenth, I missed school and received many flowers. I
want to thank Mr. and Mrs. Gulliford for the bouquet and card. I went out
for dinner with my host family. We went out to a very cool restaurant with a
live music. My host mother’s best friend, Jessica, gave me a very big and
beautiful cake. The next day I celebrated my birthday again, but this time
with my fellow exchange student friends at Hops. Pierre, the French exchange
student and my very dear friend, and I shared a birthday party. His birthday
is actually on the 20th. All of us enjoyed each other's company, and Pierre
and I blew our candles after our international friends sang happy birthday.
(I want to thank everyone for showing up, the presents and making my
birthday in America memorable, especially Pierre’s host parents).
December was a blast. In the beginning of December, I was
a bit stressed with all of my exams going on. I was studying a lot and
eating some brownies to compensate for the energy my neurons were spending
with all that studying. I ended up doing very well in my exams, and needing
to go in a diet during winter break. But everything was ok, even though I
was a bit apprehensive. I always read in exchange student’s journal that
they feel down during the holidays. And I supposedly, not only would I be a
little bit down and away from my own family, but also away from my first
host family, who I had learned do love very dearly. Yes, I was moving to a
second host family. A week before school was over I had the chance to meet
them. The Fletchers seemed to be an excellent family too. They had a four
year old boy called Cole, and two teenage boys, Michael, 16, and Andrew, 17.
They also had a daughter Morgan who is 14, and who I would be sharing a
room. By going out with them to one of Mike’s basketball games and dinner, I
felt like Mr. Dave and Mrs. Charlie were very cool parents. My siblings were
nice and fun, and that the entire family had a great sense of humor.
I was still kind of apprehensive to move before Christmas,
but I thought to myself, “Come on, you are Karine Andrade and you moved from
home to experience new things and meet new people.” I ended up moving in
with the Fletchers on the 19th of December. They were very sweet and
welcomed me with open arms and hearts. Morgen was the best roommate ever.
She helped me unpack and constantly asked me if she could by any chance do
something to make my transition easier. She was pretty excited of having one
more girl in the house other than her step mom, and so was I to have a
sister to have girl talks with before going to bed.
From the 20th to the 24th, I was able to meet the entire
Fletcher family. It was fun going to Grandma and Grandpa Fletcher’s house
and hanging out with Morgen and her cousins. We had sleepovers and baked
thousands and thousands of Christmas cookies. Dave would ask me every now
and then, “Do you like my family? Aren’t they great?” There was no way of
not falling in love with that family too. I was very happy during Christmas.
My homesickness was definitely not in my way. Everything was great. We went
as a family to a Christmas Eve party and at five o’clock of the 25th Cole
dashed into Morgen’s room and woke us up to say, “Santa has been here.” We
went downstairs to find our stockings filled with gifts. Under the tree
there were even more gifts to be opened. I was surprised with the number of
gifts Americans buy for their family and friends. In a consumerist society,
Christmas is indeed celebrated. I got a bunch of presents from my two host
families. Things like a pink Gap sweater and silk scarf, movie passes, money
from host grandparents, a puzzle, a snoopy calendar, silver earrings, Polo
Ralph Lauren shirt, millions of cards, etc. I also received a box from my
parents in Brazil with many Christmas presents. Thank you everybody!
The New Years Celebration was really fun. Imagine all of
the exchange students together again in a sleep over. It is always fun. We
always have fun when we are together. Jacksonville does not have the Rose
Parade like California, but it has a parade in the last afternoon of the
year. The Rotary was part of this parade, and we the exchange students
joined in the fun each carrying his or her country’s flag. Then we went to
the Landing. Jacksonville’s Landing is a place with several restaurants and
bars near the river. There we danced to some band playing for the special
occasion, New Years of course. For the countdown we were already in the
living room of a very generous Rotarian family who hosted our New Years
party and sleep over. In the name of all exchange students, I would like to
thank Audrey and her parents for the hospitality. We danced all night with
Luca, the fabulous Italian DJ.
School was back January 3rd. Can you believe that? Neither
could I. But I can assure you I was there ready to go on with my junior
year. In Brazil, it was summer and school would only start in the beginning
of February after carnival. I just kept reminding myself that school here
will end in May and in Brazil the semester will only be over a month later.
In January, I was already adapted to my new host family. I now had new
subjects in school such as Chemistry Honors, American History, and French
III. The other subjects remained the same. I have now a new ride to school.
Brittany is very nice and so is her best friend Eden. I now consider Eden
and Brittany two of my good friends too. I love hanging out with them
February was the most exciting month of the year for
Jacksonville. They were hosting the Super Bowl. I do not really get American
football, but I sure enjoyed the party. The whole city was happy for the
event. My host parents took me to NFL Experience. NFL Experience was an area
downtown with many games and merchandise related to the football league. My
host parents hosted a party for 35 people. Many of my brother’s and sister’s
friends came to it, making the party even more fun. The party was very cool.
Everybody liked it. In February I also decided to join the track team, but
after a couple of weeks of intense training my left leg is hurting. I hope
it gets better, because I was really enjoying that.
That’s all for now folks. I hope you enjoyed being a
little bit part of my exchange year by reading my journal. Once again I
would like to thank the people from my Brazilian district, Mr. David Ferrell
and Mr. Clovis Ribeiro, and everyone from my district in America for helping
me make my dream of being a foreign exchange student true.
For all of you people out there that are dreaming to be a
foreign exchange student better learn the expression "wow" now since you
will eventually being using it a lot pretty soon. For those of you who wish
to live life with few wows, I can just say: sorry. Wows make life
wonderful somehow. |
July 9 Journal
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My last entry.
One thing that was not easy for me to do this year was to
keep up with my journal. There was so much to do, see and think about that I
found hard to just keep it cool for a couple of hours and jot down my
experiences. Everyday was filled with new opportunities of memorable
adventures and I was just not willing to sit in front of the computer. Now,
that I am back home and to my routine and had time to digest all I lived in
America, I find the perfect chance to share with all of you a bit of my
life.
The second semester of my exchange was very different than
the first. I do not mean that it was better or worst, just different. By the
second semester I felt like I should be completely adapted, but I was hit
hard by homesickness. As a result, I had to come up with several strategies
to overcome that. These strategies included: working out, listening to
music, e-mailing my family, watching MTV and anything else that kept me
busy.
Ok, let me tell you my story in a chronological order.
After the Super Bowl on February, I was still living with the Fletchers and
everything was going great. They invited me to join them in their Spring
Break skiing trip. How could I say no to a skiing trip? I had never skied
before, and that would be the best debut: to learn how to ski at Park City
with my host family. The trip was awesome!!! I took classes and my host
sister Morgen became my official guide down the slopes of Deer Valley. At
the end of the week I was even able to do some blue slopes. We also had lots
of fun going shopping at the town center and dinning at a very nice
restaurant. We also went hunting for Easter eggs and got presents from our
host parents whom my four year old host brother was fooled to think was the
Easter bunny. The best thing of the trip though was that it made me
completely part of the family. I felt even closer to my host family after
the trip.
The week after I came back from the ski trip I moved to my
third host family. I always knew I would have a third host family, but I was
so attached to my second host family that it was hard to let go. It was the
same feeling I had when I left the Lindell’s, my first host family. It is
always hard to say goodbye and to realize that you will never have that same
degree of parent, brother and sister hood with that family once you stop
living with them. I know that none of my host families will ever see me as a
stranger, but it is inevitable that we loose some of that intimacy of those
that see one another everyday.
I did not feel very apprehensive about moving, because I
had already met my next host dad, Larry, a member of the Mandarin Rotary
Club and Monica, his wife. They were wonderful with me and made it all very
easy.
For the first time I was an only child. Isn’t that cool? I
loved it! Monica and Larry have two sons, but they are all grown man who
does not live with their parents. So, I was the only “kid” around. I was
sooooo spoiled, and I enjoyed every bit of it. Monica is the best cook in
the world, and she could even make healthy food taste good. Larry always had
a joke, and I love to laugh. They were great host parents and I love and
admire them a lot.
I realized that the time to go home was near at the
exchange students’ last Orientation in Gainesville. Even though we were all
very very very sad to give each other the final hugs and goodbyes, all of us
kind of understood that we should have as much fun as possible during that
weekend in order to save it in our memory and hearts. During that weekend,
we went in a boat trip in the Gulf of Mexico. I will never forget those
cheeseburgers and the smiles on everyone’s faces.
The last week of my exchange was marked with lots of
studying for finals. It was definitely the busiest week of my life. I packed
more than I have ever packed. I cried more than I have ever cried. I gave
more hugs than I have ever had. And I said I hope I see you soon more than I
have ever said.
I see the end of my exchange year as the end of a circle,
the conclusion of an adventure, the end of a successful school year, and the
beginning of endless friendships.
Coming back home was very interesting too. I felt like I
was going home to take over the life of another Karine completely different
from the Karine I know now. When I saw my family at first all of them were
really excited. My dad took pictures of the historical moment as my sister
and mother hugged me. They hugged me as if they were testing if our hugs
felt the same. It seemed like they wanted to check if that was the real
Karine who they had hugged goodbyes to a year ago or some sort of a clone.
The amazing thing to me was that they had not changed at all, and neither
had our relationship. As a matter of fact, I believe that my experience as
an exchange student only enhanced this relationship that I have always
viewed as solid. After unpacking my heavy bags and waking up on my bed on
the next morning, I realized that I was really home.
It was then time to restart my life in Brazil. Since I got
home, I have gone out to several places with my friends. During my first
week I felt like I was resuscitating after being dead for a year, but now I
don’t feel like that anymore. I feel very active and present in the life of
my friends. Yes, they forgot about me for a year, but I indeed made sure
they reminded me once I was home.
One thing that many of those that knew me during my
exchange might remember is my constant complaining of my weight. Well, this
problem is now solved. The day after I got home I became a member of
Salvador’s coolest gym. I have been dancing, jumping, lifting weights, doing
sit ups and running everyday. Did you hear that Mr. Lindell? I am running.
During my exchange, my first host dad introduced me to running, and I became
a bit addicted to it. I have to this point lost seven kilograms since my
arrival, that would be approximately fifteen pounds, and I feel ready to
engage on my city’s next fashion week.
Once again I would like to thank very much everyone that
made my exchange possible and was part of it: Mr. David Ferrell, Clovis, Al
Kalter, Sue, Kate, Bill Gulliford, Harriet, Larry Murr, Monica, Mr. Lindell,
Mrs. Lindell, Dave, Charlie, Sarah, Brent, Jennifer, David, Michael, Andrew,
Cole, Morgen, Josh, Sam, Brittany, Eden, Jennifer L, Mr. Barker, Mrs.
Barker, Alan Vincent, Doctor McKay, Doctor Mrs. McKay, all the members of
the Mandarin Rotary Club and our district, all my teachers and classmates at
Mandarin, Interact, French Club, Junior Girls,
and my exchange student friends that I will always have in
my heart:
Elle
Carlo
Hanna
Christopher
Rafaela
Ema
Asya
Mark
Luca
Gokhan
Tom
Javier
Ruth
Rikki
Bruninho
Nick
Aya
Pierre
Stella
Miwa
Luisa
Vicky
Tibor
Livi
and all others (I am sure that I must have left someone
out). Love you all.
My advice for future exchange students:
- Live every day of your exchange as if it was your last
- Love your host family as if it was your own (specially
your host mom, because you will sure need a mother to hold your hand
through this adventure)
- Go to Church with your host family, even though you do
not share the same religion, because there you can make friends, find
emotional support and really learn how to respect other beliefs
- Be in touch with the other exchange students, since
they are going through the same experience as you are and are desperate
for friends
- Go to as many Rotary meetings as possible. They are fun
and you will feel welcomed and at home. It is almost like having another
host family.
- Be yourself, but be willing to learn
- And smile because you probably are lucky to be at this
moment a Rotary exchange student
I am now hosting my second host sister Morgen, and my
family and I are having a blast. On the 25th, I will be welcoming my new
American sister Jessie to my home. It is now my pleasure to be a host. Next
month, my younger sister is going to be a foreign exchange student to
Vancouver. I feel privileged to see my sister start the most exciting and
fantastic circle of her life.
Keep in touch!
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