Yes! It is true!! Time is flying by so fast that you don’t even
notice that 3 months is gone! Before you get to see yourself around it's time to
go home...
Things are great in the states! That’s maybe why time is
going so fast... You see new things and find out new things all the time. It
makes you so adventurous! It has definitely made me a lot more mature and
life loving... An exchange year abroad makes you want to see all the rest of
the world...
This journal is not so much of what I've been seeing and
doing, cause all the other exchange students journal is about that and with
me it's pretty much the same! I can recommend you to read
Zeeshan’s last journal, it explains it very good
and just like I would have written it! No, I'm going to talk about how a
Rotary Youth Exchange changes YOU. Yes YOU! And your whole perspective to
the world... It’s a BLAST WITH NO END!
Things are going good, but not always! Your exchange is
going up and down just like your normal life, but here you experience
something whole extraordinary and just awesome, and you want to make the
best out of it, but you learn that although you try it cannot always be that
way. Not every experience is going to be great, don't be afraid of
anything...! The more you try the more you are going to be stronger, "What
don't kill you makes you stronger" an exchange don't kill you at all but it
makes you a lot stronger and confident. "Don’t be afraid to fail, be afraid
not to try". Try things! Don’t say no to an offer and give everything a try!
You learn of your mistakes and the more you then try the more you learn.
Things are going to turn out okay, if you have a good organization like
Rotary to back you up... Don't be afraid to say something to your counselor,
or ask about anything.
When you see and learn new things about the place where
you live, your perspective toward people changes, sometimes for bad, but
almost/mostly for good. You get a view on the same things you are doing but
how they do it a different way, of course you like your own way best but
sometimes the new way to try it can even be better! It can be as simple as
how to eat or how to have fun.
There are many thoughts about how it is to be on exchange
but there is only one real fact about how it is, it’s when you are on one
yourself! It's impossible to think like and feel like an exchange student
and know how it is and know how to stand in the different situations, if you
have not been one yourself. Of course you can imagine, but it is not the
same. That is something very important I learned because I had so many
thoughts and ideas before it was my turn, but I first really found out now
when it was me standing in it.
The most important I've learned is not to have to high
expectations! Because if it's not like you expected it's going to turn out
as something not so good. Therefore don't listen to the people that say it
was the best year of their life and is going to be yours to! You make it
your best year yourself; it is your exchange and not theirs. Don’t have any
expectations of what it's going to be, just take it as it comes. But most of
all be positive to things, everything is positive if you make it that way!
Don’t except that your exchange is going to be like others exchange because
it's not! Like every human is different and every exchange is it too! And if
you are saying to yourself mine is going to be like that, it is not because
it is not yours, it can be as good as or maybe better. Most of all!! We are
all different and have a different aspect on how good this are, just try to
make the expectations a little low so it can turn out a little better than
expected before you set your expectations, so you can turn it out to be
better than you thought and then have a good time..
I really want to say thanks very much to my District
counselor Jody Davis for all he has done! He is a fantastic person with the
best intentions toward to the inbounds. I’m very proud and lucky to have him
as counselor. Thank you!
Also I want to thank all of RYE-Florida, all my host
families and my Rotary club in Denmark, Jelling Rotary Club, to make this
exchange year for me possible. I am very honored and pleased to be one of
the few to experience this! Thank you all so very very much! It can’t even
be described with words! |