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Susan
"Liz" Kane
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2009-10 Outbound to the
Czech Republic
Hometown:
St. Johns, Florida
School:
Bartram Trail HS
Sponsor:
Mandarin Rotary Club, District 6970, Florida
Host:
České Budějovice Rotary Club, District 2240, Czech Republic
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Bio
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August 10 Pre-Departure Journal -
"I have watched an inbound arrive (Yuri), I am picking up my host
brother Laurenz on Thursday, and my last trip to the airport will be all
about me." |
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August 28 Journal - "All I can say is wow. What a roller coaster these first few days
have been. There have been ups and downs and all kinds or crazy twists and
turns." |
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September 11 Journal - "Halfway
through class the teacher said it was time for a break. Me, the other
exchange student, and the English teacher walked next door to the pub
for a coffee break." |
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September 23 Journal - "When I meet
new people with my host family, my host mom always introduces me as her
daughter. It makes me smile that they think of me as a real part of
their family." |
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October 2 Journal - "I felt like I was
watching people come to my home and take lots of silly pictures and
speak too much English when that is not what we speak here." |
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October 12 Journal - "It was so
beautiful. The small villages that lined the roadway were picturesque
and I felt like I had a postcard taped to the inside of the car window." |
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October 20 Journal - "I am a fan of
names here. Some of my friends are: Alžběta (Bětka), Petra, Magdalena (Magda),
Veronika, Kateřina (Katka), Ondřej (Pozzy), Flantišek and Eduard (Eda)." |
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November 1 Journal - "I wish I could
tell you everything I knew about youth exchange, the emotions, the
friendships, and the sense of self that you gain slowly over this year." |
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November 18 Journal - "My brain is
always on the move. I don't crave the old things that I once loved and
could not be without. I do not miss the old life I had, as I did when I
first arrived in this country." |
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November 29 Journal - "I looked all
around the square... an ice skating rink had appeared, as well as a
plethora of lights and decorations. It's beginning to look and feel very
much like Christmas." |
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December 9 Journal - "I was a terrible
person this year... which meant my house was visited by the devil. So
screaming and chaos entered my host grandma's flat and I got a pitchfork
stuck in my face." |
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December 24 Journal - "It was early,
on that cold December morning, the 23rd I suppose. Emil was canoodling
with the others waiting to be picked up by his new, loving family." |
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January 10 Journal - "We stayed at a
Bed and Breakfast type place run by Brun Hilda. No, I’m serious… That’s
really her name. She made me breakfast every morning complete with eggs
that had hats." |
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January 22 Journal - "I was in so much
mass confusion that I had to sit there and regroup for a few minutes.
And why is this? Because I had my first 100% totally complete dream in
Czech." |
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February 2 Journal - "Best part.. Ready... Set.. No more English!! The only time something gets
close to English is if I am so lost in understanding something that they will
help me out." |
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February 27 Journal - "I watched an
eager couple pick up their brand new BMW and take pictures with it as it
rotated immaculately around the showroom floor. It was a fun time." |
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Liz's Bio
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Dobry den! My name is Liz Kane and am currently a junior/senior
at Bartram Trail High School in Jacksonville, FL. I am working on graduating a
year early to make my exchange a reality. Ever since I started high school, I knew that
I loved to travel. Experiencing the world in my eyes is like being the
kid in a candy store. I never wanted to read about places from a text book ... I just wanted to be there.
I guess you could say that this is the exact reason I fell in love with the idea of being a Rotary Youth Exchange student.
So here I am, about to take the greatest step in my life.
Sure, Mom and Dad were slightly hesitant when I brought up
the idea... but after lots of hard work on my part (and lots of support on
their end) I have finally been given the opportunity to experience another
culture first hand.
Do you want to know the most exciting part?? I am spending
my senior year in the Czech Republic!!
Besides my resounding happiness, I am quite normal. I have
4 dogs, a cat, a hamster, and an older brother. I enjoy playing soccer,
snowboarding, and spending time with my friends. I also have a place in my
heart for fashion and art. I love making my own clothes and experimenting
with creativity. When I go to college, fashion and international business is
what I want to study. Who knows.... Maybe after this experience my life will
take a completely different path. I am so blessed to have family and friends
who stand behind me in everything that I do. Without them, I would not have
the chance to do something this amazing. I also need to thank Rotary for
choosing me to participate in Youth Exchange. You have no idea how grateful
I really am!
To say the least, I could not be happier. |
August 10 Pre-Departure Journal
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This is it. In less than 2 weeks
I will be stepping off the plane
in Prague and meeting my first host family. It is hard to imagine this sight
after thinking about my arrival in the Czech Republic for so long. For the past
few months I have been preparing for what is quite possibly the greatest
adventure of my life. I went to orientation, attended Rotary meetings, and even
tried to study what seems like the most impossible language in the world.
Today I signed up for a skype account and posted the
message on Facebook reading "less than 2 weeks until departure, I am so
excited." It is this excitement that led me to put my thoughts into a
pre-departure journal for all to read. Right now I feel as if my date is
never going to get here. I read about all my other friends who are already
abroad in envy that they are already experiencing life in a new way. Then I stop to think... gee Liz, that's going to be you. Someone will open this
page, read your journal, and feel this same envy... only you will be the one
in the other country. Time is funny that way. You sit and play the waiting
game only for it to sneak up and surprise you in a way you never felt
possible.
Take the past 11 months or so. It started with a thought
of being an exchange student. This led to an initial waiting of mom and
dad's approval. After I received said approval, it continued on to many late
nights of application filling, letter writing, picture perfecting, and yes
more waiting. I continued this state of waiting anxiousness up until I received a letter with my interview time and date.
I talked at school with
other exchangers to be like Jaime and Sarah, who happened to be just as
nervous as me about interviewing. So the day came and went.... and I left my
interview with a smile, unlike most I talked to. I felt I had made the
perfect first impression and I had nothing to fear.
Soon came a random phone call from Daphne about the change
I had made in country choices, and a new letter in the mail stating that my
sponsor club is the Rotary Club of Mandarin. These little bits of
information every so often kept me in the spirit of being an exchange
student. This next wait was the worst of all. In the club sponsor letter it
had said, "your country assignment will be coming shortly." With this
I gasp
and run circles around the kitchen. That also happened to be the reaction
when Jody called in the middle of December with "Liz, would you like to know
where you are going to spend your exchange?" (well duh!). I could not forget
the reaction of the two girls I was babysitting: "What's a Czech Republic?"
Then came the January orientation, followed by waiting on
news from my host district. This news came in bits and pieces throughout the
following months including: host club, city, school, and best of all Family.
I have not even made it into the Czech Republic yet, and I am in love with
my host family. My host brother Ondrej and I have become very close, and
even though we will only meet for 3 days (he is going on exchange to
Minnesota), I have already made a Czech friend.
Now is the time. I have watched an inbound arrive (Yuri),
I am picking up my host brother Laurenz on Thursday, and my last trip to the
airport will be all about me. I am still nervous about some aspects of this
new life I will become a part of, but I think the excitement has overcome
all the bad emotions. I have 2 more Rotary meetings, 13 more days in
Florida, and the next year to make my mark on the rest of the world.
Na shledanou!
Liz |
August 28 Journal
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All
I can say is wow. What a roller coaster these first few days
have been. There have been ups and downs and all kinds or crazy twists and
turns. Where to begin...
On my way to the Czech Republic I had some minor mishaps.
My flight from Jacksonville to Detroit went quite smooth, as I coincidently
sat right next to my best friend's dad. The 2 hours or so didn't seem quite
as long with a familiar face to talk to. He asked me all kinds of questions
about youth exchange and my new family. All of which I was eager to answer.
When we landed in Detroit I said goodbye in the tram that took me to the
area of my next gate, to Amsterdam. (This my friends is where the trip
starts to go crazy.)
The flight to Amsterdam was set to leave on time, until we
were taxing toward the runway... and had to turn around. There was one
broken toilet (granted there were 6 on the plane) and we had to go back to
the gate to get it fixed. This is another one of those examples from
cultural boot camp where any normal being would simply place an out of order
sign on the door, but as Americans, we are required to ask maintenance to
fix the problem. So, one hour later.... we are off the ground and on our
way.
That being said, we landed in Amsterdam at around 6:45. In
any normal airport, making a 7:05 flight from this would be do-able. But let
me tell you, Amsterdam is no ordinary airport, it is the New York Stock
Exchange of Airports. There are people running all over to catch missing
flights, there is a mob standing in front of each line of the passport
check, and they even have a special area called transfer (big yellow sign)
for all the flights they usually move due to crazy delays and their own bad
line management. I was in this special area. That's right everyone... you
know when you were late during orientation (which I wasn't ) and Al or
Daphne said "You just missed your flight," well that was me. Missing my
flight to Prague.
Unfortunately, my host family drove two hours from Ceske
Budejovice to meet me at the airport, which I did not arrive at until about
6 hours later than expected. They picked me up and we headed home from
there. Just me. No luggage, for that was still sitting in Amsterdam. I was
pretty excited when I got there, until we got in the car.... about an hour
into our journey I had my host dad pull over so I could throw up. This was
mostly due to me being so tired from my flights and all the chaos my journey
had ensued. Needless to say, I got home and slept all afternoon and all
night.
Two days later, my oldest host brother left for his
exchange in the United States. I miss him being around because while he was
here he was the best translator I could ask for. He showed be around Budweis
and where I would be going to school.
Now comes the worst part. I hate to be negative but I think it is only right that
I share my feelings with all my journal readers
and future RYE students. I have faced the most terrible home sickness that
anyone could imagine. My first few days have been rough and there are many
contributing factors. My luggage got lost, my host family speaks little
English, my wall adapter for all my electronics is broken, I have nobody my
age around, school has not started, I feel like I am wasting my time, and I miss my family very much. Two nights ago
I even called my mom and said this
is it, I have had it, bring me home right now.
I am hoping and praying that this feeling of sadness goes
away soon, because I did not expect this at all. But RYE is all about the
surprises and running into things that you never thought you would face. So
I told my family I will give it a few more days and try to deal with what is
in the present. I have turned off the distractions, and am trying a new
approach. I am keeping a daily journal to make sure that I am trying hard
enough for myself. After all, this whole thing is about me.
On a happier note, I would like to share some observations
that I have here in Ceske Budejovice, CZ.
-The weather is currently perfect.
-I can now properly pronounce Ceske Budejovice
-I like watching Harry Potter movies in Czech with English
subtitles
-As long as I take bus 2 or 15 I will make it home eventually.
Ahoy!
-Liz |

Ceske Krumlov |
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September 11 Journal
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I am doing really well here. It was hard at first, but now
I could not be happier. Since writing my first journal I have started school here
and attended orientation in Strecno, Slovakia. I am slowly but surely adjusting
to my new life here in the Czech Republic, and keep falling deeper in love with
my new home everyday. So let me share with you some new experiences I have had.
School is very different. I am with the same group of
students all day long. Sometimes we move to a different classroom, but for
the most part we are in the same seats all day. I have found that there are
some tiny cultural differences that will take some time for me to get used
to. One of these differences being socks with sandals in school. You are
expected to change out of the shoes you came in and put on slippers or
sandals. Oh, and did I mention the crocs? I thought I would be able to run
away from them, but alas... just as popular in the Czech Republic. I do,
however, greatly enjoy that once a class is over and the bell rings everyone
pulls out food. My host mom always packs me a sandwich, candy bar, and drink
everyday. In school my classes are: Economics, Sociology, History, Math,
Physics, Chemistry, Biology, English, Czech, German, and on occasion
Physical Education (I say on occasion because it's only one time a week). I am pretty sure that is it, but if
I remember any others I will be sure to
add an aside later on.
I think school is taken much more seriously here than in
the United States. Everyone has a notebook for each subject and during
lessons all they do is copy notes. I however sit in wonderment either
staring out the window or asking the rebound in my class what the teacher is
talking about. The teachers do not expect much out of me until I get to
English class. This is when I get frequent questions on pronunciation or how
to say certain phrases. On Fridays, I take optional English with a teacher
who is British. This is nicer, because the class is a little harder and me
and the other exchange student are asked more things. It was funny though,
because halfway through class the teacher said it was time for a break, and
we took like 20 minutes off. Me, the other exchange student from New York,
and the English teacher walked next door to the pub for a coffee break. It
was quite strange, but I thought it was nice at the same time.
Orientation in Slovakia was fun. There are roughly 40
inbounds in both the Czech Republic and Slovakia combined, which is one
district. It took us 9 hours by train to get to Strecno from Ceske
Budejovice. I was so tired. We ended up getting lost when we arrived in
Strecno because it is a very small village. It was fun though because we
went to a pizza shop and had Kofola until we received a call with directions
from some Rotary people. Kofola, if you do not know, is like the Czech or
Slovak version of Coca Cola with much more caffeine. During the time of
communism they could not import Coke so they created their own version. It
tastes nothing like normal Coke at all. I think it is pretty good, but my
host family does not drink it. At orientation, I got to go rafting and see a
castle with the other inbounds. I made some new friends, and realized how
much language I need to study.
Two days ago, I went to go see the Prague Symphony
Orchestra in my city. I went with my Rotary club and the two other exchange
students hosted by my club. I will say that this kind of music is not
necessary my favorite, but I really enjoyed the concert. I kept telling
myself that I don't have to like everything that I do here, but it's part of
the culture and it's good to try it all.
I am learning new words and phrases everyday. My host
family is very understanding that my language skills are terrible at best.
My Rotary here is arranging for the inbounds in my city to take a language
course soon, which I am hoping will help me out a little bit.
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September 23 Journal
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I have two words for you all: Hladový vokno.
This may lead to the question... What on Earth is Hladový
vokno? My friends, Hladový vokno is the Hungry Window. It is one of my
favorite places. It is not clear to me what kind of magic is placed on the
items that come out of this window... but I know there is something special
going on. So if I go down the road of the Rotary 10 or 15 (I do not know the
specific average), you can most likely blame it on the Hladový vokno. There
are two locations known to me in České Budějovice, and both are fantastic.
I always order a Slaninová II. It has bacon, onions, this strange cheese sauce
that blows my mind, and maybe a few other things. I did not really read all
the things on this sandwich. I think it was just one of the only ones I could figure out how to pronounce without sounding like a foreigner.
I have
found, however, that people here are very forgiving about my language
skills. Even strangers are happy when I try, and the conversation usually
will end with "Czech language is one of the hardest to learn, good luck with
that," in some variation of broken English.
Other then the sandwiches I am learning new things
everyday. My host family told me how to take the bus to the zoo, so I went
with one of my friends (yes, friends) this weekend. It is nothing like the
Jacksonville Zoo. I had to find out how to waste 3 hours because that was
when the next bus came back to that stop. The most exciting animal there was
Medvěd hnědý or for those English speaking folks Grizzly bear. He was a
cutie. I also made friends with some Klokan rudokrký (which are baby
kangaroos). The day at the zoo was very fun, but the aspect of the trip I was most proud of was traveling to and fro without any problems. It was a
good day.
Another thing I would like to share with you all that is
cool is that me and the other exchange students are teaching a
conversational English class for three weeks while the normal teacher is at
home with a family emergency. Under any normal circumstance I would have
said no way to teaching English. I have no experience and I feel like people
my own age would not want to listen to me gripe and give them assignments.
But, since school is not necessarily that exciting, and I really had no
choice (the headmaster looked so desperate for our help)... I said yes. I teach English 3 days a week for two class periods.
I do not think that
teaching English is the best way to absorb Czech, but the kids that we teach
are very nice about it. We teach them items such as American holidays and
customs and in return we get our own lesson about how the Czechs participate
in such things. I think the best lesson we had so far was an hour and a half
with about 15 students comparing the United States education system and the
educational system in the Czech Republic. It was neat to see how eager they
were to learn about the life that we were coming from and how much they
wanted to share opinions on the advantages and disadvantages. I have two
more weeks of teaching English before I go back to having a normal class
schedule.
Other then these things, life seems to be pretty normal
for me here. I wake up, eat some food, catch the bus, walk to school, sit in
school all day, explore the city, catch the bus home, eat dinner with my
host family, do some random family activity (watch TV, or movie), take a
shower, go to sleep, and then repeat. I like how comfortable I have become
living with my host family, and love how they have adopted me into their
family as their new daughter. When I meet new people with my host family, my
host mom always introduces me as her daughter. It makes me smile that they
think of me as a real part of their family.
Lastly, happy one month to me! YAY! It feels like it has
been so much longer.... (I know in a few months I will be saying what the
heck... where did all the time go).
Ahoj.

Me before one of my Rotary meetings |

Eating Hladový vokno |

Medvěd hnědý |

Klokan rudokrký |
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October 2 Journal
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AHHHH!!!!
I finally visited Praha! It was amazing.
My host family took me last weekend to see some of the
touristy things that people usually come to the Czech Republic to see. It
was really nice. We also participated in many of the touristy things that
people always do in Prague. The funniest part about the whole thing is that
I did not feel like a tourist. I felt like I was watching people come to my
home and take lots of silly pictures and speak too much English when that is
not what we speak here. It was strange how that affected me, but I thought
it was really cool at the same time. It was very crowded in Prague when we
visited. This was most likely because it was the day that the Pope was in
the city visiting the "Baby Jesus of Praha," which is a centuries old baby
Jesus statue in one of the old churches.
The most interesting fact about this is that many people
travel to Prague just to see this statue, that is everyone except the
Czechs. Not many people here believe in organized religion so the people we
saw in the church around the statue visiting were from other parts of Europe
and some from South America. Also, the Pope never comes to the Czech
Republic. This is his first visit in about 15 years. So that being said,
people were crowded around the barriers of the Prague castle waiting to
catch a glimpse at the Pope-Mobile....(and yes I was one of them).
The other highlights of the trip included a trip through
the Baroque gardens, a trip on a boat down the Vltava to see the sights,
walking across the famous Charles bridge, eating lunch off the old town
square, and of course finding Starbucks (Al is probably reading this
thinking.. how American is that?!?!?!). It was really funny however because
I had to explain to my host family that Starbucks to me back in Florida was
a very frequent occasion, and there are only two in the entire country here.
Starbucks to them is much too expensive, because a coffee at a cafe is only
20 crown (about a dollar). That is why the only Starbucks in Czech Republic
are in Prague, because people can afford it here. So when I saw that sign,
my face lit up like Christmas. They made mention that we may have to go to
Praha more often just so they can see me smile the way I did when we walked
into Starbucks. My host brother even managed to tactfully acquire a bag of
Starbucks coffee to bring back home (oh how I love my host family).
The next adventure I would like to tell you about has to
do with package hunting. My dad sent me a really big package with some
Florida shirts, a hoodie, some Halloween goodies to share with the family,
and other random items. He wanted to gauge how long it would take so he
would know in the future what type of mail would be the most economical in
combination with receiving time on my end. This being said, when I checked
my email I was able to see where my package was also. Well, once I saw they
had tried to deliver it 2 times without leaving any sort of note, I became
slightly confused. So being the motivated individual I was, I took the
tracking number up to the main post office and managed to find out it was
not there. But I did get a phone number and location of my package. This
made the hunt go on. I called the number, listened to a murmur of Czech...
and then got hung up on. Which meant in my book... " Liz, good luck ever
seeing that package." Well since I was already looking forward to the
Reese’s cups and had already explained how good they were to my host
parents, I felt this obligation to find my package so I could share them
with my family. I took a bus around the city too a post office that I thought was the one
I needed, but was not and then was not able to look for
longer that day because I had a Czech lesson in the afternoon.
I felt like the search was never going to end. Until at
school the next day, in the English class I'm temporarily teaching, one of
the students asked if I wanted him to help me at the post office. So he came
with me and helped sort it all out. Long story short(er), I got my package
the next day. My one friend who helped me said he was so happy to do so
because he thought it would be a nice way to show his appreciation for all
the help he has gotten in English. It made me feel really special. This
adventure also gave me a great real world opportunity experience to practice
my Czech skills. I learned every Czech word having to do with post office
and sending and receiving packages. Should be a breeze when I start sending
or packages.
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Tak (so), I feel like I have written a lot for you
all to read for now, but I promise the next journal will be more
exciting because my family and I are going to Italy! So until then,
na shledanou! |

Prague castle |

Me on Charles Bridge
(with some tourists) |

The Baby Jesus of
Prague statue |

My host mom, brother and I in the Baroque garden |

Starbucks! |

Picking up my package with Susana (from Mexico) |
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October 12 Journal
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I thought the drivers in the Czech Republic were crazy, but they
are most certainly not as wild as the ones in Italy. I think that this is a nice
way to start what might possibly be a very long description of vacation hilarity
and wonderment. As you may have read (or not) in my last journal, my host family
took me to Italy for the weekend. This was amazing not only because I got to see
Italy but it also gave me an opportunity to get to know my host family even
better than before. We planned on leaving the house at 7 am.... so at 8:30 we
were on our way. Here's a cultural aspect for those thinking of visiting or
coming here on exchange: the Czechs like being on time, enjoy being on time, but
if they are not on time... it's not the end of the world (You will see this
later in the journal on the ride home also).
We made the 7 hour journey to Verona, our first stop in
Italy, by way of Austria and Germany. It was so beautiful. The small
villages that lined the roadway were picturesque and I felt like I had a
postcard taped to the inside of the car window. My host dad also embraced
the road trip as a way to give me more of the interesting history tidbits I pick up while living here. We drove through a small city in Germany by the
Austrian boarder where my host dad went on a Hitler history tangent,
throughout which he was very reassuring that he was by no means a supporter
of his regime. They just love history. As the car ride wore on, I continued
to sleep. It's the easiest and fastest way to make it safely to your
destination. At one point during my slumber I got a very gentle poke on the
leg, "wake up, we are almost in Italy." At this I was so excited, mostly
because Italy is somewhere I have always wanted to visit, It was even very
high up on my list of countries I wanted to go to on exchange.
When we finally arrived in Verona and it took us a solid
30 minutes to find the hotel, which was not bad at all. The streets are a
confusing labyrinth of don't turn this way and I don't think so if your
vehicle is bigger than a Vespa. When we reached the hotel, we discovered
they had a guest parking area, to which my host family was most certainly
relieved. We took an hour to unpack and refresh before going out to explore
the city. My host family has been to Verona 5 or 6 times before, so they
know what places are nice to see. If you are reading this thinking..."why
does Verona sounds so familiar?," it is because it has been way too long
since you have thought about Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet. This is the
setting for the play. Even though the play is fiction, there is a family
Capulet and they did live in Verona. Anyway, enough about Shakespeare. The
town is so pretty. The ruins of the Roman empire are all around, and you
feel as if you have stepped into a time machine while walking the streets.
There were multiple occasions when I had to stop and pinch myself because I really did think that
I was dreaming. We visited the Julieta house, the
Verona Castle, the Roman theatre, and ate dinner in the town square (and yes
I did have pizza).
I had to laugh at how small the espresso was. I think that
is what keeps people going in Italy late at night. During the day there are
less people, then all of a sudden.... bam! Let's eat dinner for 3 hours.
It's culture and even with this I found myself thinking and relating more
with the Czech lifestyle. I had conversations in Czech with my host family
about different things. They explained to me one of the benefits of speaking
Czech is that not a lot of people can. If you say something bad in English
about food or the hotel you are in, then more people are likely to
understand you. But if you say it in Czech, nobody around you knows what you
are talking about. I love this! I feel like the new language I am learning
is a secret one. My host family and I agree that Czech is one of the best
languages to speak while traveling.
The second stop on our Italy trip was Milano. I was in awe
with the dramatic change from small romantic Verona, to fashionably large
Milan. We spent 3 hours in Milano just driving around (yes, looking for the
hotel). I felt like there was this connection to one of the National Lampoon
movies instead of "hey look kids there's Big Ben... hey look kids there's
Big Ben again...," it was "hey look Liz there's the Duomo... hey look Liz
there's the Duomo again." I like the Duomo. The gothic style just draws me
in. It is amazing how something this spectacular has lasted so long. Here's
a fun fact: Did you know that the Duomo in Milan is the 3rd largest
Cathedral in the world? Well, if you didn't, now you do. We also visited the
Santa Maria delle Grazie, that housed Leonardo da Vinci's "Last Supper"
until they moved it to the museum next door. I did not get the opportunity
to see the painting itself, because it is necessary to make reservations at
least 3 weeks in advance. I did however see my fair share of churches and
monasteries while in Milan. I would name them all, but there were way too
many! I also enjoyed going through the fashion district. I could not afford
anything by Gucci, Prada, Valentino, or Armani but it was sure nice to look.
After a nice night's rest, I packed my bag and was ready
to hit the road for an exciting ride home. My host parents thought it would
be nice to drive up to Lake Como in Northern Italy and then go back the
Czech Republic by driving through the Alps. Just think... (it took 7 hours
to get here by highway), when we left "ake Como at around 2 pm I was ready
for a nice mountain ride. At around 8 pm, we were still in Italy. We stop at
a light on the road where they were doing construction work. My host dad
turns around and asks "So Liz, you like adventure right?" Of course
I say
yes. Because that was what we were on, the adventure of following the
mountain road. We had a road map of Europe and my host mom turns and
points..."tade" she says. I'm going to be completely honest, we were nowhere
near where we needed or even wanted to be. That being said... when we found
the one sign that said Autostrada, we followed it. It took us 100 km to even
reach the highway. And when we did, we were probably 2 hours away from where
we had started. It sure was an adventure, and I loved ever second of it. I learned more about how my host parents function and can now recognize many
Czech words having to do with travel. I also found that my host parents sort
of function like the Jetsons. Do you remember that cartoon? We would stop at
a rest area to use the restroom and fill the auto with gas and my host mom
would stick out her hand for the money to go inside and get some food. It
was adorable. It reminded me of the Jetsons how George Jetson would work and
make the money only to have Jane spend it all. That was all I could think
of. Our trip continued into the wee hours of the morning as I slept. We
arrived back at the house at 4 am. That's right... 7 hours to get there 14
to get back. I love it.
So today is a day of resting and fasting. The resting is
because of the long trip, the fasting is because I ate way too much while I was in Italy.
I was gone for 2 and a half days. In that time I ate 3 pizzas,
a calzone, 2 plates of pasta, continental breakfast at the hotel on both
mornings, gelato, tiramisu, and I'm sure much more that I can't think of.
Needless to say, I do not need to be doing any more eating today. If I do,
it should only be fruit, yogurt, and water. Until next time....
Čau.
P.S. This has nothing to do with my trip to Italy. But I thought
I would let the members of the Mandarin Rotary Club know how openly
my host club has accepted Fluffy as a member of the club. They are
fascinated with him. He even has his own chair at the end of the table. I cannot explain how or why, but Fluffy is a hit! More info and pictures
coming soon!

The Duomo in Milan |

Ferrari in the
Fashion District |

Me on Juliet's Balcony |

Tiramisu - Yum! |

Me and my host mom
on Lake Como |

Fluffy being a good listener
at the RC meeting |

Me and Fluffy |

Fluffy and the Sombrero! |
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October 20 Journal
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Ahoj! It is very heavily debated as to which languages are the
most difficult to learn and I do not think there will ever be a definitive list
without one language fighting to be known as more difficult. So short of Chinese
I would like to put in my vote for Czech being the 2nd hardest language. Nobody
thinks of it being a hard language because they never think of the Czech
Republic. If they do, it is probably assumed they do not have their own language.
It is only spoken by about 12 million people worldwide, 11 of which live in the
country. So, it is a rare occurrence abroad to find someone else who speaks
Czech unless you are in the country itself. I think that is the best part,
because once I have learning the language under my belt I can have side
conversations in Czech so nobody understands (except the person who I find to
speak with in Czech). Alright, so this means it is time for a brief Czech
language lesson.

Do you want to
speak Czech? |
-The way it is spelled is the way it is pronounced. Very
simple if you can actually get your mouth to make the sound of whatever
letter you want to say. This goes well for me until I get to the letter Ř.
It does not matter how you slice it, this letter is my least favorite letter
in the alphabet... and surprise it only exists in Czech! Apparently it is to
sound like: "rž" or like 'rg' in bourgois. It is so awkward. My classmates
love trying to get me to say words that have that letter (which seems like
all of them). Příští zastávka means bus stop, and I can't even say the first
part. It sounds like I tried to vomit way too many sounds at once.
-The accents are nice and not so nice at the same time. It
helps with recognizing the sounds, but then when I try to type something on
my English computer keyboard it takes me 20 minutes to write a Czech
sentence. I bookmarked a Czech Alphabet link on my computer so I can copy
and paste the letters. It works for now.
-The Czech language itself can be traced back to the 11th
century. Pretty impressive if I do say so. It's a synthetic language, which
means a lot of word changing, but not as much word adding. It is perfectly
okay to make a one word sentence. I will give an example: you go - jdeš or
you will go - půjdeš. Another fun but bummer is that j is y, y exists but
sounds like I or ee, and I is still alive too, and sounds just like I or ee
also. So in the end, the only letter that got his sound stolen was J. Jan is
a very common name here, but it pronounced like Yan or Honza. Or, if Jan is
introduced to me he says you can just call me John (with hard J sounds).
What?? you just say your name was Honza. Come on people. This whole concept
throws me off.
-I am a fan of names here. Some of my friends are: Alžběta
(bětka), Magdalena (Magda), Petra, Veronika, Kateřina (Katka), Ondřej (Pozzy),
Flantišek and Eduard (Eda). I will use Eda as an example. When I talk about Eda to someone else it's Eda. If
I am calling him from across the room or
trying to get his attention I say Edo. It works the same with everyone else.
This leads to a constant situational ending letter change that makes my head
hurt sometimes. The system of conjugation is really complex.
-My current favorite way to learn new Czech words is to go
on walks with my Czech friends and have them point things out in the
environment and tell me the Czech word. Then, about 2 hours later they will
ask me what the words are. It's a fun way to get to know the people and the
language at the same time.
So that's a good overview language for the moment. When I start drowning in grammar
I might bore you all again with another language
lesson. I have lessons 2 days a week with a teacher who has taught exchange
students in the past. They are going well. Also, is it possible to decline
in your native language? It often takes me a very long time to think of
words that were once so easy to come by. Just a thought.
Until next time (soon I am sure, I like writing too
much!). Čau.
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November 1 Journal
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I wish
I could freeze time. I know that a little over two months
is barely a dent in my exchange experience, but I already know that it is going
to be over before I know it. It is November... last year at this time I was
awaiting my interview and acceptance into the RYE family. Now, I am living my
dream. What was once a thought, turned into an action, led me to being in this
very seat, on this computer, writing my journal for everyone to read (well I like to think there are a lot of you).
Time is fascinating. Moments come and go.
Feelings range from happy to sad, people that were once a very integral part of
your life slowly disappear into the shadow that time has created. But the best
part is that all that once was gets replaced with something new. The actions
seem more kinetic, the people seem more relatable, the world is literally at
your fingertips. I wish I could really put into a properly stated sentence how
much I love all of these feelings. I am learning how to react on my own, there
is no need to look behind me, for the future is what I make it. The Czech
Republic is peculiar. Not in a bad way, but just... well peculiar. If I asked
anyone back home something about this place they may say Prague, or that's where
you are on exchange. They would not be able to tell you that the people I have
shared my time with so far in this place are amazing. They may seem to be quiet
or shy at first, just like myself. But when the candle is lit, you can feel the
warmth of the souls around you.
Since my last entry I have cooked an entire meal for my
host family (which they called "American Day"), and I have shared and
experienced Halloween. On "American day" I made pancakes, mac and cheese,
hot dogs, cornbread, bbq pork, and brownies. Even though I do not think
myself a distinguished cook, they seemed to think that I was the best one
ever. The great feeling that I got out of that day, however, had nothing to
do with food. It is the realization that there really are more cultural
differences than you notice. When I sat down with my host family and they
asked me what they were eating it was strange, because all of these foods
seem so normal to me. It is like when we have brambory at almost every meal.
I mean, I like potatoes, but I did not know I had to be prepared to love
them.
Halloween was a very family oriented day. They treated it
like an "All Souls day" where we went to 3 different towns and villages to
visit the graves of deceased relatives. We lit candles at each gravesite and
signed small crosses over the graves. All of the graves had been previously
adorned with a multitude of flowers, still some families brought more. It
was strange to see some of these graves, because many of the people who had
died were war victims or soldiers. Which always leads me back to the line
"If we could make every high school student in the world an exchange
student, there would be no more war." I feel that this is true. I have been
accepted into a family and new life that I have created for myself. I feel
like everyone who thinks of the United States that I come into contact with
will think of me. Just as I have done in the past with other exchange
students. It's a great feeling knowing that you can change the world with
small actions.
If you were wondering (I bet not), I am still not fluent
in Czech. I fear I will not be for quite some time. But, all I can do is
keep working on my language skills and they will come. I often get
frustrated because I want to know what people are saying when they speak
fast or slow! In school I want to learn everything that my class is doing. I want to be able to think and feel just as they all do.
I want to be able to
close my eyes and read the back of my eyelids in some sort of gibberish that
only a small percentage of the world may understand. I want that to be me.
Lastly, I want to applaud all of the future exchange
students out there. I have no idea how many of you read or even follow my
journal, but I do not think any of you are fully aware of what a truly great
experience this is. I wish I could tell you everything I knew about youth
exchange, the emotions, the friendships, and the sense of self that you gain
slowly over this year. But honestly, I would be lying if I told you
anything. Because it is different for all of us, but we are all learning to
become ourselves.
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November 18 Journal
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"What you think you create, What you feel you attract, What you
Imagine you become."- Adele Basheer
This quote is on the front of the journal my best friend
gave me as a going away present. I did not think I was going to have to use
it this soon. I have already filled up my first journal with pages and pages
of stories and notes. When I grabbed this journal off my shelf, it was
honestly the first time I had thought about the quote on the cover. I wonder
how long it took Halie to find this journal in the bookstore... because this
quote is so relevant to how I am feeling now. It symbolizes all the change
that is happening and will happen in the months to come. My brain is always
on the move. I don't crave the old things that I once loved and could not be
without. I do not miss the old life I had, as I did when I first arrived in
this country. I have been here for about three months. I am at a level of
happiness with people and surroundings that I once wanted to castrate (yes,
I said castrate). Now, a blink feels like a wasted moment, until I realize
my eyes are actually opening into a big adventure. When my mouth opens, my
brain automatically responds with this gibberish that has become so warming.
I almost fail to recognize myself, but I know this is only the start of a
new me. I am becoming me.
I have seen new sights and sounds in addition to knowing
my own home like the back of my hand (yes, I call my town home now). In the
past feel weeks I have been to Prague (again :D) to see the musical Carmen,
Jindřichův Hradec for an inbound weekend, and Bad Schallerbach in Austria.
In Austria I went to Aquapulco, which is this amazingly fun indoor water
park. Good news was that the sun was shining... so like any good Floridian
exchange student that has been deprived of mass amounts of sunshine, I spent
2 hours of my stay in Aquapulco sunbathing. My body was very happy.
The only thing that is going downhill is the lack of
warmth and sunshine. I had to go out and buy an even warmer jacket, because
the walk to the bus stop every morning keeps getting colder and colder.
Also, no wonder I am sure when January rolls around I will be frozen into an
icicle. Generally, I find nothing else to complain about other than weather.
If anything else, it is probably only how I have to wake up, go to school
everyday, sit while they learn and look vacantly out the window at hopes
that something a little more interesting will happen. NOOO WAIT!! What I
meant to say was... I love going to school. We learn the most interesting
things. I understand fully and comprehend all things that go on through the
day and it brings me to tears the moment class is over for the day. * I
really miss Sarcasm... it does not exist in this country.*
Other than this... I am not losing anything except the
English language. I make the stupidest vocabulary errors, and I can't even
think about grammar. My friends in school will ask me questions about things
that are so particular that I have no idea what to tell them. I almost
always refer them to the other American exchange student and admit to myself
that I have been defeated by the lack of English stimulation. I have just
let that go though. I think it is such a fun experience to be so consumed in
the new life you have created that you forget basic things. Today I mixed up
the words savage and salvage. I have no clue what context it was in... but I
was oh so wrong. I find the best solution to anything you do wrong: Laugh.
It really is the best medicine.
So that's about it. I am at a loss... I have found so much
normality in my life that everything I could write would sound so mundane.
You don't want to hear about how happy I am riding the bus when I would have
rather drowned than ride the bus in America. Or, how I clean my room and do
my own laundry. Heck, I even offer to wash the dishes. Al, when this gets
posted make sure you have EMS on stand-by... I don't think my parents can
read this sort of information without having heart attacks. :)
| Zatím na
shledanou. |

United States
Inbounds in CR |

After a Rotex
activity, inbound weekend |

Cliché
look-back picture
in Prague |
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November 29 Journal
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Wait... what is it... did you say that there is a Christmas Tree
in the Square?!?!?!? Does that mean it's the official start of mass chaotic
shopping and eating way too much food?!?!? Not only that, but it means that I am
over 3 months into my exchange (holy $#!%), time really is going way too fast.
Until I start blabbering on about holiday traditions here
and so on, I should tell you about my experience with Thanksgiving in a
foreign country. Everyone was extremely interested in this American holiday.
In fact, I happened to eat three separate Thanksgiving type meals! That's
more than at home, but I suppose in Florida it is made up for with days of
turkey related leftovers. I had a meal with the Rotex at our inbound
weekend, I had one with some friends from school, and another with my host
family. Overall, I am very pleased with how well it went. I made some monkey
bread for my friends and family and helped my babička (Czech for
Grandma) with the turkey.

babička a já |
I love my babička. The only words she knows in English are
"yes, no, and cabbage," which in my opinion, is perfect. I wish that those
were the only things people could say to me in English. Every time I go to
visit her for lunch or baking cakes, I leave her flat with the biggest
smile. She forces me to use my language skills and it makes me feel so good
to finally understand almost everything that she says. While we were eating
our "Thanksgiving" we were talking about dance lessons. She asked my host
dad to help translate so I would understand. Here's the best part: before he
said anything to me in English, I translated it to him. He looked at my
babička and then back at me and said "See, you don't need me to tell you
anymore, you understand fine."(This is when you imagine that moment of
running into the bathroom, locking the door and doing the happy dance while
screaming in excitement.) It was one of the best moments I have ever had.
All of the little moments like this one make me grow even closer to the
family that Rotary has given me in the Czech Republic. I cannot imagine how
I am going to leave them in January, but I know my next family will take
care of me too J.
Now, it is time for the scoop on Czech holiday
shenanigans. It's true, Christmas is coming way sooner than I expected. This
realization did not come until I had my babička strapped to my arm, while
sipping punč and waiting for the city's tree to be colorfully lit for the
start of the Christmas season. The temperature was way too cold (5 degrees
Celsius with a steady breeze is enough to make me want to hibernate for the
winter). I stood next to my family in the square and listened to some Czech
carols sung by a children's choir. I looked all around the square... an ice
skating rink had appeared, as well as a plethora of lights and decorations.
It's beginning to look and feel very much like Christmas. There are a few
things that I am going to have to get used to. For example: Did you know
that here presents will be delivered by Baby Jesus (in Czech Ježíšek ) ? Or,
on the 5th of December we have Mikuláše (St. Nicholas day) when St. Nicholas
comes to visit the children of the Czech Republic with an angel and devil by
his side. The good children (if they promise to be good) receive a small
gift or some candy while the naughty ones get coal or (typical) a potato.
This all tends to be very confusing to me because 60% of this country is
non-religious.
So when the tree was lit and my host brother said,
"Advent. do you have in U.S.?" I looked and said yes, but then thought to
myself they celebrate Advent? The answer is yes indeed. Advent is one of the
most important seasons here. They do it just like textbook Catholics. They
light the candles on the table (one for each week), small children keep
Advent calendars, and they set out Nativity scenes. But, I was assured that
even the people who aren't religious can celebrate Advent. They just use it
as the 4 weeks before Christmas to anticipate opening presents, which sounds
legit to me. Personally, I am going to use Advent to get a better
understanding of holiday traditions, which means saying yes to anything
having to do with holiday things that are typically Czech. I have already
promised babička one of my Saturday's to bake cakes and candies and I am oh
so excited to beat down Christmas dinner (I'll explain in a future journal).
For now, I'm trying to stay busy and not let the holiday
season be a low point. Everyone always says it's one of the hardest parts of
exchange and the homesickness will most likely be unbearable. Me, I am going
to smile and embrace everything new and different for the next few weeks. I
never know if I will get an opportunity like this ever again, so I am going
to make the best of every moment no matter how embarrassing, disgusting, or
strange I may find it to be. Tak čau.
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December 9 Journal
|
This
is called Půjdem spolu do Betléma (Let's go to Bethlehem together):
Pů-jdem spo-lu do Be-tlé-ma duj- daj, duj- daj, duj- daj, dá!
Je-žíš-ku, pa-náč-ku, já tě bu-du ko-lí-bat.
Zač-ni, Ku-bo, na ty du-dy: duj- daj, duj- daj, duj- daj, dá! Je-žíš-ku, pa-náč-ku,
já tě bu-du ko-lí-bat.
A ty, Jan-ku, na píšť-alku: dud-li, tud-li, dud-li, dá! Je-žíš-ku, pa-náč-ku,
já tě bu-du ko-lí-bat.
A ty, Mik-ši, na hous-ličky: hud-li, tyd-li, hud-li, dá! Je-žíš-ku, pa-náč-ku,
já tě bu-du ko-lí-bat.
A ty, Váv-ro, na tu basu: rum-rum, rum-rum, ruma, dá! Je-žíš-ku, pa-náč-ku,
já tě bu-du ko-lí-bat.
I am still learning it, but it is by far my favorite Czech
carol...
Roughly translated: It is a story of going to Bethlehem to
meet the Baby Jesus. It is calling on different people to play music for
him. The first is Jim who plays the pipe, the second is Jack who plays the
flute, the third is Mickey who plays a small violin, and lastly Lawrence who
plays the bass. The sound in the middle of each verse represents the sound
of the instrument being played (pretty creative, huh?). I just like it
because it's fun to sing... and watching my host mom and brother sing it on
Mikuláš when the Czech Devil showed up at my host grandma's flat was
priceless.
Speaking of.. I think this is the coolest holiday ever.
Mikuláš is epic. The square had thousands of people gathered to watch the
small angel rappel from the Black Tower to the other side of the square.
Then, after that was over, there was a huge angel who was paraded around the
whole square. Then most people go out to the pubs or go to their home to
wait for Mikuláš or čert (the devil) to show up at their house.
Unfortunately for me, I was a terrible person this year... which meant my
house was visited by the devil. So without any interruptions, screaming and
chaos entered my host grandma's flat and I got a pitchfork stuck in my face.
I was prodded until I started singing a song (I chose Jingle bells because
it was the first thing I could think of), and then the devil was pleased.
Since I did not fail his test, he left me alone.
My host brother on the other hand was not so lucky....
when asked to sing he just sat there. Violence ensued and like any other
child who gets visited by the devil, he was dragged to hell (in this case
meaning across the living room with fierce resistance). I, of course, like
any big sister would do in the situation....started laughing and pointing
and taking lots of pictures. Did I mention how much I love this? My host
grandma must have a way with holiday figures though because Mikuláš did us
the honor of stopping by grandma's with presents earlier in the day. Isn't
he sweet?!?! (Okay more like host dad and mom went shopping so Liz would eat
her own weight in chocolate and gain all the weight she's been trying to
avoid since she stepped foot in this country.)
Since it is winter now and there is only really cold
weather and rain, which in my opinion is much worse than snow. My host
family told me that the weather this year is quite odd. It snowed for two
days in October and now when people are looking for a white Christmas, their
hope is dwindling. I am looking forward to everything that's happening in
the future (snow or not). My host family is taking me to the Christmas
market in Vienna and we are also going to the Alps in Austria for a ski trip
over winter holiday. So, whether or not there is snow in Czech does not
matter, because I am still going to have a great time. Now, I am enjoying
the winter nights with my friends ice skating on the square. It is not so
expensive and it gives me a chance to do something that I don't normally do
in Florida (which is ice skate). My second host dad even invited me to play
ice hockey with them if I want. I'm not so sure about that one....
I hope that everyone has a fantastic vánoční svátky
(Christmas holiday)!
And because Sarah May did it in her journal, I must add a
Rotary Blazer picture.... and those of you who know my creative persona will
understand exactly how my blazer came to be this chaotic before I even hit 4
months.

Angel on Mikuláš |

Picture of us wearing the
light up horns on Mikuláš |

Christmas tree in
the town square |

Ice Skating |

More Ice Skating |

Blazer Front (current) |

Blazer Back (current) |
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December 24 Journal
|
This, my friends, is the heart wrenching tale of my long lost
friend. His name was Emil. And this is his story….
It was early, on that cold December morning, the 23rd I
suppose. Emil was canoodling with the others waiting to be picked up by his
new, loving family. His friends were coming and going as he stood quietly
amongst the wake. Finally, the hand reached in from above, and plucked him
from his slumber. He was confused, alone, and very scared. Once he arrived
in his new home, a mere 10 minutes later, he was welcomed by a plethora of
water and new smiling faces. It didn’t take long for Emil to make new
friends and refresh after his journey. Of course, you know how outgoing
those Rotary exchange students are ;). Emil and I were instant friends. We
took pictures together and discussed our holiday plans. Little did he know,
my family had something else in mind. A plan, in which, he became the
victim. My poor, poor friend Emil…..
As the story continues, Emil and I parted ways, but only
for an hour or two. I even received word that he was still doing just fine,
and I needn’t worry about him at all. As it turns out, I was duped. When I
went to visit Emil in the evening I was greeted with what looked like a
vicious crime. I was assured, however, that this was not what it looked
like. Emil was in no harm at all, especially in the comfort of what appeared
to be a plastic bag. I held him as we rode in the car on our way to some
sort of rendezvous. As I exited the vehicle, I held on to Emil with all my
strength. I handed him over at the door to a man who appeared to be a
caretaker. He was wearing an apron and I was greeted with a smile. (If you
have a weak stomach please skip the next paragraph).
To my dismay, my young friend was taken from me under
false pretenses. It wasn’t until I heard the muffled banging sounds that I
became worried about Emil and his safety. Shockingly enough, by the time
that I had thought to go check on him… It was too late. The man who greeted
me previously had filleted my new friend. Emil was handed back to me in
pieces, and I was on the verge of tears. I couldn’t help but think… this is
not the happy ending I thought our friendship would have. As I took him
home, in what was now a cooking pot, that I had started referring to as an
Urn, I questioned the morals of my family.
But oh was he tasty!!! And I can’t help thinking that Carp
on Christmas is the coolest tradition in the world.
What you have just read is indeed, quite true. It is what
I have found to be one of the most interesting holiday traditions here in
the Czech Republic. At first the idea seemed rather barbaric, but after
being a part of the whole process and experiencing it for myself, I couldn’t
help but smile at the differences. If you think about it, it can be compared
to how most Americans always have turkey on Thanksgiving. Only here, you get
to live with you dinner before you eat it.
I am going to try and keep this journal short because that
story said it all. I just wanted to thank Rotary and my family again for
letting me experience this. You have no idea what it means to me. So to
everyone in the United States, Czech Republic, and all my other exchange
friends in the world have a Hezký vánoce a štastný nový rok!! I love you
all!

Emil |

Emil, before the
car ride |

Emil, I really did
love you |

Emil, I never meant
to hurt you |

Emil, you are so good! |

Hezký
vánoce |
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January 10 Journal
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One day Lift ticket for Sternstein: € 22,00
Wiener Schnitzel mit pommes: € 9,50
Car ride back to Czech Republic: 64.4 km + gas
Visit to Hospital after said day in Sternstein: Nothing
except the pain in my wrist and an excruciatingly long wait for various
doctors to look at my x-rays because my host mom is a doctor so she has
taken extra care to make sure her baby isn’t dying and hasn’t broken
anything.
Finding out that my wrist isn’t broken and I can still
enjoy my week long Snowboard trip to the Alps in Austria: PRICELESS!!!!
Thankfully, it was only a sprain. Regardless, it was still
(and still is) painful, but I was so excited when they told me I could still
snowboard with my new nifty wrist brace. Two thumbs up if you ask me.
Basically… the story is, we went to the Czech/Austrian Boarder (on the
Austrian side) so I could try out snowboarding before our week in the Alps.
Because I am a goober, I fell and put all my weight on my arm. Then, of
course, it hurt really bad. We got back home, and I asked my host mom to
look at it. She told me it wasn’t broken (to which I didn’t believe her) and
wrapped it up. I think I slept for a total of two hours that night and woke
up still with gross amounts of pain in my wrist. Host dad calls host mom,
who then arranges for x-rays and to have every doctor in the region examine
my results. Turns out there’s a small crack in one bone in my arm not big
enough to cast and some torn innards. No big deal says the 5 doctors who
examined it and all tried to overanalyze it because I was the doctor’s
daughter. They arranged for me to get this sweet brace for my wrist that
allows me to feel like I’m Iron Woman. I can do virtually anything with this
thing on and not cause any more damage to my wrist! This meant that I could
still enjoy my vacation!
Speaking of vacations… I WAS IN THE ALPS!!!! THE ALPS! THE
ALPS! THE ALPS! THE ALPS! (Okay sorry). It was amazing to say the least.
When you live in Florida and the most you get is a freeze warning that
declares a state of emergency by the Governor due to the citrus crop (thank
you CNN on Austrian television that I don’t get in CR) you tend to get very
excited when you see things this magnificent. The air was cool, the snow
was….. well, snowy and the food, holy cow! Forget hungry window causing my
weight gain, what I really meant to say was “I gained all this weight on my
one week trip to Austria.” The ski/snowboard philosophy here from what I
have experienced is much different. In the United States, when I go
snowboarding, it’s an all day event. I start at 9 am and finish as soon as
the lifts close with a small break for some sort of food. This food is
shoveled down so fast that I don’t even have time to socialize and it’s back
to the slope. In Austria… the story is so different. We start around the
same time, perhaps a little later but, we stop for lunch. I mean STOP. About
an hour later we get back on the slope (around 2 or so) and take a few more
runs. Then around 3:30 (slopes close at 4:30) we stop for coffee, tea, or
for the hardcore people some sort of Austrian bar concoction. Then we slowly
make our way all the way back down the mountain to the lodge or the car.
This is followed by a short break at our mountain flat which leads into more
eating for dinner. After dinner I played Carcassone with my family and then
stayed up to watch CNN, because I was so excited that there was a channel in
English. My TV at home here only has Czech channels. It’s cool for learning,
but when you are looking to inform yourself on the latest stories of the
world, it’s nice to see the news. Downside: when there is very limited
newsworthy coverage, you see the same headlines over and over (Thank you,
CNN). Besides all the food and multiple bruises from falling so much, I had
the best week ever! We stayed at a Bed and Breakfast type place run by Brun
Hilda. No, I’m serious… That’s really her name. She made me breakfast every
morning complete with eggs that had hats. They were the cutest thing ever
and I regret not taking any pictures of them. She only talked to me in
German, which was an experience… because I had no idea what she was saying.
But, I put on that “Rotary Smile” said Guten Morgan, Auf Wiedersehen and
good. For one week, I’m pretty pleased with my German language knowledge.
The way home was bittersweet. I knew that the best week I
ever had with my host family was ending. Packing up all my belongings, I
made my way to my next host family. It’s one of the best/worst moments in
Youth Exchange that I have experienced thus far. I have become so attached
to my 1st host family that when I was getting ready to leave they were
trying to find excuses for me to stay. For example: “I think there is too
much snow on the street to drive the car,” “I think it will be better if you
have more time to pack,” “So… maybe you should move next week or the week
after.” All of these made me realize just how lucky I was to have the time
that I did with this family. I know that they will forever be a part of my
life and I am so grateful to have been a part of theirs.
Moving is all part of the experience and as much as I am
going to miss my last host family, I am going to move forward and give my
current family the best of my time. I want everyone in my new life here to
be able to share the same kind of relationship that I have conceived with my
first host family. Step back world. I have a new family for 2 ˝ months. It
may only be the first day, but I promise to make this time of my exchange
even better than the last.

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Moving day - Snow in
the road in Budejovice |
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January 22 Journal
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Ahoj World.
Let's see, what can I tell you that's new? Well, you
already know that I changed host families. You already know I'm gaining lots
of weight. But, perhaps I can find something new to talk about. How about
this: I started dance lessons! Not ballet or jazz, but traditional ballroom
dancing. Many families send their children to dance lessons between the ages
of 15 to 19 so they're children can become "more refined" and "more
cultured". Since doing new things is one of those awesome little traits of
being an exchange student, my host grandma, whom I love so much, seized the
opportunity to buy me dance lessons as one of my Christmas presents. Lucky
for me, the lessons are taught only in Czech.
This leads to the very interesting side topic of last
Monday (about a week or so ago). Oh last Monday, how you made me very
confused. The first week I moved into my new family, it was only my host
parents because my brother was on a ski trip with his class in France.
Seeing as my host parents do not speak very much English, this led to mass
Czech language learning on my part because without that my answers would
have been quite repetitive of yes's, I understand's, no, I'm not hungry, I
really am hungry, and I'm going to sleep. I say this simply because those
are usually my most important phrases of the day. But, since I was thwarted
into this new environment, there is no time like the present to start
studying much more than I was before.
Ok, so back to Monday. I had gone to school like any other
normal Monday and was home around 2:30. I decided that I would have a snack
and just relax before my dance lessons. This led to talking to my host mom
briefly, watching some TV, eating a small dinner, and then taking a shower
and getting ready to go. I was at my dance lesson from 5:30 to 8. I returned
to the house, with my feet sore as could be, talked to my host parents, did
not pass go and did not collect 200 dollars. I was so tired. So naturally, I
went to bed early (wow, that never happens). Turns out by the time I wake up
for school at 6:45 am, I was in so much mass confusion that I had to sit
there and regroup for a few minutes. And why is this? Because I had my first
100% totally complete dream in Czech. I have had ones before that had only
some phrases that were random and some words that I had used on repeat for
any particular day. But never have I woken up and my first thought been
"What the HE*L did I just dream about." because to be honest, I really have
no idea what my first dream in Czech was about. I think I was so surprised
when I woke up that I completely forgot. I went to eat breakfast and was,
well, wow. It was awesome. But at the same time, I am looking forward to the
point where I can dream in Czech and be able to completely understand it.
Hmm. so after that interesting life story, I do not have
much else to follow it with. Last night I stayed up way too late (meaning
early morning) making food and dancing around my kitchen with my host
brother. We made some noodles, played really loud music and shared in
general hilarity. I think maybe one of my favorites was fighting over which
CD's to play. The creative strategy of "well, we should listen to my music,
I'm being a good host sister and sharing my culture with you." And about 10
minutes later it would be "Well, Liz, now that I know I don't like that CD,
I'm going to put in my music." This is A.K.A "sharing our cultures". I, in
fact, always tend to lose at this. I don't mind though. Czech music is
usually pretty good, and my host brother also has an extensive collection of
older English CD's that I am also a fan of like The Beatles. My two favorite
Czech bands here are Vpsaná fixa and Mandrage. Good stuff.
In the past week I've also attended the Rotary Ples for
Cesky Krumlov with the exchange students there. It was a lot of fun. I think
I met more people interested in me being an exchange student than I ever
have in one sitting. I met Rotarians from Denmark, Austria, Turkey,
Slovakia, and, of course, Czech Republic. Maybe, by the time Ples (fancy
ball) season is over (now until late March) I will be an amazing dancer. I
sure hope so.
Alright, well I've managed to spend enough time avoiding
to walk to the bus stop to get to Czech lessons on time. so I should
probably leave now. I'll write more later, promise .
Tak čau.

Host brother
making food |

These were amazing!
(Thai Style) |

Tabitha (Washington St.) and me at the Ples |

Time to dance! |
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February 2 Journal
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Does anyone recall that line in the Outbound student handbook in
bold print where it says "Be Prepared to Adapt"? For the most part, this really
has not been too challenging for me. Making friends wasn't so hard, and the most
complicated barrier in even the hardest of times has been my language skills.
And I am by no means complaining in any way, shape, or form. I am just letting
you all know what I am experiencing now is a little bit more challenging than
what I have faced so far.
Do you recall in my last journal or 2 mentioning that
I moved? Well, at first I was just out of place mentally because I am so close
with my first host family. I give them a lot of credit and without them, I
probably would have been on my way back to Florida much earlier than anyone
would have liked. But now, I have been living in my new home for exactly 23
days. This has been the hardest part of my exchange. Adaptation is a skill that
I thought was easy.. No sir. Not at all. I literally changed lifestyles
overnight. The Kubešovi family is my new family. My host mom is Marie, who I
call Marie. Host dad is Honza, who I call Honza. My host brother. well he's also
Honza because 1 out of every 6 males in Czech Republic are named that. And yeah,
I call him Honza too. I also have a host sister, Jana, who studies in Germany
and another older host sister Maruška who lives down the street with her husband
and daughter, Marketa (age 2). I have my own room upstairs, and it's quiet and
peaceful.
On Sunday nights after dinner, I sit down with my host family and I
write out my schedule for the week. This is so the whole family knows what each
other is doing. All my plans are thoroughly checked prior to engagement. My host
mom has a copy of my school classes so she knows what time I will be home from
school every day. I have dance lessons on Monday, Rotary meetings on Wednesday,
and every other day of the week I normally have nothing exciting planned. In my
new home, much more is expected of me. If I have no plans after school, I am
home within 30 minutes of my school being finished for the day. If I do have
plans, I am home at whatever time they agreed to. When I come home, I am to say
"Ahoj," so they know that I am there before I go up to my room. And. cool for
me. best part.. Ready... Set.. No more English!! The only time something gets
close to English is if I am so lost in understanding something that they will
help me out. Other than that, plans are discussed and made in Czech, dinner
conversations are in Czech, and misunderstandings are dealt with in Czech..
which for me means I am usually on the short end of the stick.
If you were
wondering why it hasn't really sounded like I've had any issues so far with
everything it's because I haven't mentioned having problems. The only problem I
have had is that it is taking me much longer than I had hoped to adjust to my
new life in my new house. Every day I am learning something new about my host
family and how they function. Examples: How plans need to be made a week in
advance, flattening out clothes before folding is essential, you take-you clean
up, even if we offer- you can get it yourself, mom is always right, I don't eat
soup with my left hand so why did you put the spoon on the left, umiš český, we
discussed it 5 days ago in Czech.. why can't you remember?, and we made plans
and you're going. None of these things are problems. They are all things that I
have to adjust to. One of the experiences of being an exchange student is having
the chance to move and experience a new family life. I just happened to move
extremes from fluid to strict. Hence: I am the one who has to adapt. A word to
others who may one day be in my shoes: don't be shocked if you switch families
and you think that your life is going to end. It won't end. It will just take
some more time to get used to everything that they do differently. My host
family now has hosted multiple exchange students before from Mexico, Brazil,
Australia, and Ecuador. I am their first American. I really don't want to ruin
their vision of America by being unreasonable. So as difficult as I have a
feeling these next 2 months are going to be.. I will overcome it. Because I am
an exchange student, and exchange students can do anything they put their minds
to. (Yes, I am still wearing my Rotary Smile).
I also want to share with you the awesome time I had at
Pec Pod Sněžkou at my inbound weekend for Czech Republic. It took 6 hours of
cross country travel by train with some of my closest friends for a day of
snowboarding and of course, the infamous Czech Language test. For without
this language test, it really wouldn't be a Czech Rotary weekend. I spent
all day on that Saturday snowboarding in a small group (7 people) who
actually knew what they were doing. The only part I didn't enjoy was having
to use T-lifts all day long. You know... the old school bars that skiers can
use but snowboarders just look dumb because they have to put it between
their legs?!?! Okay, well they always designated someone to go after me in
the lift line because 9 times out of 10 I would fall within 4 seconds of
trying to get on the lift. Regardless it was a really fun weekend. It made
me realize how little time I really have left with some of my inbound
friends, because the next Rotary function we have together isn't until the
end of May. After my day of snowboarding on Saturday, I said goodbyes and
made the 6 hour journey from Trutnov back to Ceske Budejovice. *Side note* I
love how easy it is to travel within the country, kudos to Europe for
awesome modes of public transportation.
A big Děkuji to Rotary both in Florida and Czech Republic.
I can't thank you enough for everything you have given me. Ahoj!
J

Hanging out
on the mountain |

View of
Pec Pod Sněžkou |

Trutnov Train Station |

Me and Kike
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February 27 Journal
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I started writing my journal awhile back, but found I had nothing
interesting to say and/or that I was having one of those days that nobody really
wants to hear about. But, now I have much more interesting things to talk about.
This week was a school holiday and I had the opportunity to visit München,
Germany (Munich). My current host sister is at University there and she offered
to take me for the week and show me around the city. It was a nice break from
the everyday, and I enjoyed every second of it.
I walked around Olympia park, the site of the 1972 Olympic
games. The grounds were quiet, spare all the construction going on to make
the park even nicer. I circled the complex and even had a look at the
Olympic swimming pool, which was huge. After walking around and taking far
too many pictures, we left and got on the underground to go eat lunch. I
must say, I am fascinated with public transport in big cities here. I love
it. It’s so practical and it makes me feel like I would never need a car.
But, that all changed when we went to the BMW showroom.
This place is awesome. I know I can’t drive until I am
back in the states anyways, but really… I loved sitting in the driver’s seat
of all the cars that I will not be able to afford until I save up in my
retirement fund (which is a long time). Me and my friend Rachael, who came
with me to Munich, took dozens of photos because neither one of us had sat
behind the wheel of a car in 6 months. We were a bit excited. I drove a car
on the Daytona Speedway, via playstation and was pretty satisfied that this
was the only amount of driving I could do in Europe. I watched an eager
couple pick up their brand new BMW and take pictures with it as it rotated
immaculately around the showroom floor. It was a fun time.
On a more serious note, I also had the chance to visit
Dachau, the first established concentration camp. This was the camp that
served as a model for all the other camps set up throughout Hitler’s reign.
It was also the training place of the SS and became known as the “school of
violence.” Spending a few hours here made me very thankful that I have the
life that I do. I walked around the grounds and had a lot of time to
reflect. I saw a short documentary film about the camp and what happened to
the people who lived in it. I was surprised at how much that I didn’t know
about the Holocaust, and how much I learned after I left. It was also
interesting for me because I became interested in what happened to the Czech
people who were imprisoned here. I started associating myself with Czechs
and reading all about what happened to them throughout this time. Turns out,
not many of them were actually imprisoned, because the Czech nation was
being used to make weaponry for the war effort. So nobody wanted to mess
with the people making the guns. Some were still taken, but it was not
nearly as much as the other races or nationalities. It was amazing to me how
it just started with one or two “imperfect” races and began to spread to
other social groups. I feel like they began making excuses to just throw
people into camps. It really shocked me. This was one of the most important
days I spent in Munich because it opened my eyes to a past that I knew
about, but really had not experienced.
On my last day in Munich, I visited the Deutches Museum,
which is a technical museum. It was fun to run around the 6 stories of halls
related to all sorts of different things. They have history of ships,
planes, boats, physics, astronomy, photography, textiles, toys, pottery,
glassmaking, and all sorts of other things. I even got a great view of the
city from the Sundial garden on the 5th floor. There were more cars there…
but I couldn’t sit in them L. I did however get to pretend I was the captain
of a ship, make energy from hydrogen, and see a piano that was older than
the United States. I usually like going to museums like this one where the
exhibits are a bit more interactive. It was enjoyable, and thanks to it I
have so many pictures that I have no idea what I am going to do with.
I think the most interesting thing was when I was leaving
Germany. I was actually smiling. Because I had a great vacation, but I was
thinking to myself I’m ready to go home. But now, home isn’t Florida, but
rather Ceske Budejovice. I got back and told my host family all about my
trip, ate dinner, took a shower and went to bed. Sounds exactly how it
should be at home, and that’s how I felt. Granted I don’t always agree with
mom and dad, but that doesn’t always happen in Florida either. Some things
are getting shorter here, like my time left in the Czech Republic. I never
thought that it would feel like there is nothing left.
Last night, I went out and just sat in the town square. I
thought about everything and realized that I really don’t have that much
time left here. I looked up and saw the tourists, smiled and said I’m glad
that’s not me. I just reflected on the things I’ve accomplished since
arriving, and the things I wish to accomplish before I leave. In the next 3
weeks or so, I become so busy that I don’t even know when I am going to have
time to breathe. But, I guess that’s how it always goes for the exchangers.
Everything seems to be going so slow, then comes New Years, you blink, and 2
months have already gone by. I can’t wait to share the rest of my adventures
here with all of you, and I’m sure there will be more soon. Ahoj
J

Me and Rachael
in
München |

Olympic Park sign |

Some family getting
their new BMW |

My new BMW (I wish) |

This one is nice too |

Driving via Playstation |

Entrance to Dachau memorial site |

Execution site |

The symbols of
different races |

Reflecting on the camp |

Me at the gate |

Driving
the boat at
the Museum |

American Astronaut exhibit |

Learning at the Museum |
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