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Lily
Britt
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2010-11 Outbound to France
Hometown:
Tamarac, Florida
School:
Pompano Beach High School
Sponsor:
Davie-Cooper City Rotary Club, District 6990, Florida
Host:
Croix Wasquehal Rotary Club, District 1670, France
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Bio
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| August 30 "Everyday has been a new
experience, trying new food, meeting new people, and doing new things! This
is still so surreal!" |
| October 17 "Now whoever
came up with the stereotype that the French dislike Americans, I’m here to
say its wrong! Almost everyone loves America here; and if they don’t like
America you can count on me to change their minds!" |
| November 27 "Making
lifelong friends, speaking French, attending French school, riding the metro
and bus, living with my incredible host family, seeing the seasons actually
change, making “American breakfasts”, getting homesick, shopping like there
is no tomorrow, learning guitar, dancing, eating the most indescribable
delectable foods, traveling from London to Paris to Belgium, and just being
an exchange student." |
| March 21 "I never
took into account that I was lucky for so many things, topping it off with
going to a foreign country for a year, realizing that now makes me miss home
even more in a way. " |
| May 4 "I’ve worked through language
barriers, stereotypes, every awkward situation you can imagine, and through
a lot of obstacles I’ve changed as a person." |
| June 8 |
Lily's Bio
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I remember
at the beginning of this school year all I focused on was
making good grades and planning out the classes I’d take for the next 2 years
ahead of me. Then, I went to my school’s auditorium for some guests a few months
into the year; little did I know that it was Rotary Youth Exchange telling the
students about staying in a foreign country for 11 months. I was so ecstatic
from the information they were telling my friend and I, that after the
presentation we went down to talk with Bob White and Roy Joseph for about a half
hour. I knew after I talked to them my life’s outlook was already changing.
My name is Lily Britt, and I’m a sophomore at Pompano
Beach High School in Pompano Beach, Florida. I love my life here in sunny
Florida, but am so ready for a change! Right now, my current hobbies include
the Swim and Track team, and also I’m involved in the Drama club- Vice
President of, French club, and Culinary Arts club- founded and president of;
which I’m thrilled to go to France to taste exquisite dishes. I love
socializing, meeting new people, and trying new things is a bit of a habit
of mine. I’d like to describe myself as outgoing, outspoken, and a free
spirit.
Traveling is what I love above all things. I love seeing
how people live their lives differently then me, but how normal it is for
them. My whole family loves it also, whether it is in the country or outside
the country, we try to travel as often as possible. My mom says I first
boarded a plane when I was three weeks old; of course I can’t remember, but
she said “…we went to New York for your baptism”. Outside of America I
traveled to Jamaica, Aruba, Cayman Islands, Mexico, The Bahamas, and
Ireland….FRANCE will be my eighth foreign destination and for the longest
amount of time!
My family and friends are very important to me. I have
three dogs, love all of them with all my heart, also I have an older sister
Kellee; 17 years old, and next year she is going to college. So while she is
in college and I’m in France my mom and dad will be missing us terribly…what
will they do without us??? My friends all are sad that I’m leaving them for
a year, but I keep telling them that I will be back senior year! Basically
my friends and I go to the movies, bowl, run, shop, go to the beach,
boating, and sleepover each other’s houses, etc.
I still can not believe I have been selected into this
fantastic program, and have been chosen to spend a year in France; this is
surreal! I have to thank Rotary for everything they have done for me, and
will be doing for me in the future. You guys are the greatest! Everything
that has led up to this moment has been worth it, but I also have to thank
my parents. My mom has about the same enthusiasm as me, and has helped me
greatly through this long enduring process. My dad has been supportive for
me, and says “as long as you’re happy, so am I”. |
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Bonjour!
The moment I have dreamt
about had finally come, to write my first journal entry! I am staying in
northern France; Villeneuve d’Ascq and it is absolutely extraordinary, I
love it here and I have only been here a week. The people are amazing, the
scenery is exquisite, and the language is very different!
When I arrived at Charles
de Gaul airport it was Thursday at 7 a.m., and I left Florida on Wednesday
at 9 a.m. …needless to say I pulled an all nighter ( not including the 3
hours I slept on the on plane). BUT I was way to excited to be tired when I
arrived in France! I mean its FRANCE! Once we got off the plane it was a
little crazy, but I got my luggage and found my family! We went “home” and
it’s the cutest house, I loved it instantaneously.
My family is amazing and
very patient. My host mom; Patricia is the most welcoming person I have ever
met, I love her already. My host dad; Christophe is so funny! Although, I
can’t understand him yet, his facial expressions tell me everything! And my
host sister; Arielle is 18 years old and is so sweet! She has introduced me
to her friends. Fiona, her twin is in Sweden on exchange and their son Remi
is 23 and has his own place studying to be a lawyer. My family and I are
moving to Lille on September 30th because they thought it was time for a
bigger home, but wherever I am its beautiful! I had my first “French”
breakfast that morning, yummy baguette and cheese! That night I met
Arielle’s friends and had my first “French” dinner! …The food here is
amazing!
Next day I went to the
mall in Villeneuve d’Ascq, bought a French phasebook, and there was a market
in the mall; so we grocery shopped as well. In the seafood section there
were whole fish on the ice in front of you, tons of oysters in buckets, etc-
so different! The food we ate that night was delicious; of course. The days
are already blurring together from doing so much! For lunch the next day,
was by far my favorite… so far. It was chicken with like a milky sauce and a
mixture of mashed potatoes and scalloped potatoes- I call cheesed mashed
potatoes! Mouthwatering…Then Emma came over (another exchange student from
Finland though) And Arielle, Emma, and I all went to Lille, got our metro
cards for school and went into the city. We saw old Lille and new Lille, our
tourist guide being Arielle. Loved the boutiques! Later went to Remi’s
apartment and I met his beautiful finance, and had dinner. The following day
went to the Lille outlet with Arielle and Patricia and it had very good
prices, I bought a few “French” clothes!
On Sunday I met my
district and the people in it at a rope climbing range. I loved meeting
everyone, plus I saw that I was not the only one struggling with the French
language! We climbed trees the rest of the day. I climbed with Emma, but
also with Annex from Sweden and Alexa from Ohio! Such an exciting day- first
we all practiced on a baby course then Emma, Annex, and I went on the red
course-second hardest course(we didn’t know), but we loved it! Then Emma,
Alexa, and I went on the black course- hardest! SO MUCH FUN! My district is
awesome.
Everyday has been a new
experience, trying new food, meeting new people, and doing new things! This
is still so surreal!



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Salut!
Wow. I don’t even know
where to begin! I have done so so much! I have been here for a little less
than 2 months now and it feels like it’s gone by way too fast!
I’m attending a High
school in Lille called Saint Paul, and it’s awesome. They love exchange
students and have had them so much that they have a “French for foreigners”
class; and I notice my French is improving! I’m taking that class with 4
other students; Vedha from India, Valentina from Chili, Marcelo from Brazil,
and Leah from Oregon; we have fun. When I came here I basically only knew
how to say the basic sayings to get around, but I knew grammar from being in
French III. But speaking, and knowing some grammar is a whole different
world!
I have taken up some
hobbies here like learning the guitar, and doing ballet. I love both, and
have wanted to do them in Florida! I’m so glad I’m trying new things; which
was a goal of mine. Plus, through doing these activities I’ve meet some
really awesome people. Emma from Finland and I love to just go to Lille and
walk around, and shop etc. At school is where I have met my closest French
friends that I already love and we just hang out; shopping, sleepover, go to
the cinema, etc. I’ve also made friends with everyone in my class; it’s not
difficult for me but you definitely can’t be shy! My class at school is so
funny, and I get stay with them all year- different from my school in
Florida where we switched half way; so I’m happy I got such a welcoming
French class!
Now whoever came up with
the stereotype that the French dislike Americans, I’m here to say its wrong!
Almost everyone loves America here; and if they don’t like America you can
count on me to change their minds! Everyone has asked me tons of questions-
which is pretty funny and entertaining for me! For example, I get asked a
lot “Do you go to the beach like every weekend since you live in Florida?”
or “Do you go to Disneyland a lot??” Also, I can’t get over how much
American culture has traveled over here. Our music, TV, movies, fashion, etc
it’s so amazing to see it and experience it!
On September 29th we moved
to the new house! It was an exciting experience for me figuring I only moved
when I was about 4 and couldn’t remember anything. So moving was cool, and a
lot of work! We are still moving things around getting settled in. The new
house is gorgeous and I’m so glad I was a part of their experience in
moving.
In one word I would
describe the food here as spectacular. The cheeses, the mousse au chocolate,
the French fries, the bread, and basically everything else is mouthwatering
and impossible to say no too. Sooo let’s just say I’m really immersed into
the culture, food aspect wise! Also I made my family here my dad’s famous
meatloaf, giving them an American meal and it was good, but it just wasn’t
as good as how my father makes it.
New Things I’ve tried: Shrimp, Muscles, Duck, and tried everything
chocolate, etc
New things I’ve done: Fist time on a motorcycle, moved houses, taken the
metro and bus to school, and actually learning guitar and ballet, etc
And I’m sure these lists we grow!
Also I’m learning this new thing called gaining weight : )
I’ve met my second and
third families and their amazing; I’m so blessed to have such an amazing
year planned and with such amazing people. With my host family now- The
Dzialak family, I will be traveling to London on October 25th for the
duration of one day! Which I’m super excited to go sightseeing and do all
the touristy stuff; Big Ben! And in early December I will be going to PARIS!
Super excited for both!
Recently I just traveled
with my District and met with a few others then traveled to Normandy, and
after meet with other districts in Mont Saint Michle. It was gorgeous, and I
loved seeing the beaches! Plus, I saw and hung out with the other two
Floridian exchange students Leland Henry and Tyler Osteen; such an awesome
surprise! I have about two hundred pictures…just from that weekend. I feel
like such a tourist here all the time but I love it! And let’s just say I’ve
taken a lot of pictures so far : )
Well time is just flying
by, but none is going unappreciated. Every day, every minute I feel so lucky
to be here for a year. Of course the feeling of missing comfort and family
comes, but now I have comfort and a family here also.
Au revoir
pour maintenant!
Always,
Lily
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host dad and I on a motorcycle |
Say
Cheese! |
Emma and I in Lille |
Artist in Lille |
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Moving Van! |
Normandie with other exchange students! |
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November 27 |
Three
months exactly, that’s how long I’ve been here. The day is already here with
too many memories to count … Making lifelong friends, speaking French,
attending French school, riding the metro and bus, living with my incredible
host family, seeing the seasons actually change, making “American
breakfasts”, getting homesick, shopping like there is no tomorrow, learning
guitar, dancing, eating the most indescribable delectable foods, traveling
from London to Paris to Belgium, and just being an exchange student. No one
can describe to you what this is like, what this emotion is; for me learning
French in France for one year. The only way to have these memories and
emotions is by doing a year abroad. I’m not even half way through my year
yet I feel I have changed so much. And I feel like the roller coaster is in
effect.
This past month has been traveling, which I’ve loved! I went to London.
Amazing. The night before my host parents, and my host mom’s best friend’s
family stayed at this old beautiful house in Boulogne- Sur- Mer; Northern
Lille. The following morning we took the English Channel and site saw all
day! Walked about 7 miles that day? Just estimating; visiting Big Ben, The
London eye, walked along the River Thames, American Embassy, Double Decker
buses, and Buckingham Palace. Everything was spectacular, and when they
talked in their accents it just about made my life; cutest thing ever! Next
was Belgium. I’ve gone there twice, but both times were right on the boarder
and for shopping. Which I loved! Belgium does have the best chocolate…no one
is lying. GO EAT BELGIUM Chocolate and waffles it might just make your life.
Also I will be going to Brussels shortly! Paris about a week later! It was
breathtaking. Although, all day it was raining and had hurricane winds at
times, it was so exciting. Instead of taking the bus or climbing the Eiffel
tower because of the weather, I got a special tour by my host parents seeing
everything from Montmartre (painters) to the Notre Dame to Musée du Louvre
to Arc de Triomphe to American Embassy to Avenue Montaigne (most expensive
shopping street in Paris), and back to the Eiffel tower. Very memorable
first time in Paris, but definitely not the last! I’m actually returning on
December 4th with my Rotary district!
In my town though, I have done bowling with my Rotary district, gone to a
swimming pool with Emma! SO different! Gone to art expeditions, experienced
strikes for the buses and metros, seeing movies (in English with French
subtitles), seen French plays, gone to markets, found an English book store!
And eaten about a 100 crepes. Time is flying! Also doing so many things is
very tiring! My language capability is improving all the time, there are
those days that I mess up every sentence when speaking French, but then
comes the days I have half an hour conversations just talking in French
without major grammar problems. I have learned though I cannot compare
myself with other exchange students. We all are having different experiences
and if they pick up the language faster or slower than me that’s them, we
will all learn our language by the time this year is finished.
School is very different here, definitely more formal to say the least. With
the teachers, with how you dress, and just overall presenting yourself.
Teachers are really really respected here, for class we stay in the same
room all day while the teachers switch classrooms, and when they enter the
room all the students must stand up and then the teacher can tell us when to
sit. Dressing is everything here. School is a place where you should be
dressed nice, but here it’s like a rule. Guys where collared shirts with
sweaters over them, pants with belts, while the girls are a little more
fancy with boot heals, fur coats, and hand bags used as back packs.
Comparing that to Florida schooling where you are friends with your teachers
and you wear sweat pants to school; VERY different. School though is really
fun here- at times- when we just have breaks or mini ones everyone is really
sweet to me and so curious about
America. I now have great friends all over my school, and I always feel like
people are like “Oh, that’s the American!” It’s very amusing.
Now homesickness does happen. To tell you the truth I thought I really
wouldn’t be affected by it, I mean I knew I’d miss my family and friends but
not majorly. It may happen in the beginning of an exchange or not even until
the end, but for me it was just a little before three months into my
exchange, and it hit me hard. It was one of just those days where I was
struggling with French and how it’s difficult to express everything you feel
in a foreign language, it lasted for about a week, happy one minute sad
another. It’s over for the time being, but only after long Skype
conversations with Carleigh McFarlane in Hungary and my parents back home I
knew everything would be ok and I’m not the only one that has felt like
this.
The weather here is incredible here, I loved experiencing autumn and seeing
the tree’s leaves change color, then changing to winter which comes with the
freezing temperature. And get this, seeing it SNOW! The first day it snowed
was on Thanksgiving Day and all I remember is that I was jumping, twirling,
dancing, and just felt like the most carefree person at that moment in these
snowflakes that poured from the dark night sky with 6 other exchange
students doing the same. But now… here come the big coats, and comfy boots!
Life in my town Villeneuve d’Ascq is starting to feel normal, I don’t even
know how to describe how this makes me feel. My host family has become more
than just simply a host family. And every day I start to feel more and more
like I belong here, like I actually live here. And those feelings, that are
so difficult to explain, are the best feelings in this entire world.
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Big Ben! |
Montmartre, Paris |
Belgium Truffles. Heaven. |
Autumn |
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Four
months or five months? I’m losing track of time, everything is going by way
too fast! It’s literally my half way mark, and that makes me think about the
end of this exchange, which makes me sad, but yet happy. Sad for leaving my
life here, but yet so happy for my progress with French! So much has changed
since my last journal, where to begin?
Went to Paris with my rotary district here around early December! Visited
Arc de Triumph and climbed up it, walked along Champs Elysees Avenue, saw
the Tour de Eiffel, and shopped along the Boulevard Haussmann Avenue. We
only have one boy in our district with about 12 girls…let’s just say we all
loved the shopping! Buying mainly touristy things, figuring we were walking
along, and shopping in the most expensive stores in Paris. Not to mention
Paris’s amazing decorations, and lights, they were really spectacular! And
when we were in Paris something that was absolutely necessary, was that we
the “Americans” all needed our starbucks coffee, so we all bought grande
fraps, and cappuccinos! YUM.
Christmas was spectacular! The city Lille was like a dream, the snow, the
Christmas market, the lights, the Christmas trees, the big Ferris wheel,
chestnuts roasting on the open fire, and the music. My personal Christmas
experience was so different! We opened our presents at night and my 23 year
old host brother came over with his fiancé, and we opened presents together.
On Christmas day it felt kind of like our celebration of Thanksgiving, where
we eat all day and spend time with your family. In Florida, my family and I
open the presents Christmas morning and the night before we’d watch the
Christmas story movie or maybe we’d play a game. But this experience was
amazing and I wasn’t even homesick then, which surprised me a lot. Then two
days later on December 27th I changed to my second my host family!
What a nervous, scary, most unpredictable, amazing feeling that is;
switching families! My second family lives in a town called
Saunghin-en-melantois. Yeah…that’s a mouthful! But I love it here! My two
host families live in completely different places, the first closer to the
city, and the second more in the country. They are both so different, and
yet I love them both! I have two host sisters; Alix who’s 19 years old, and
Julliet who’s 16 years old. Love them both, but it was really hard for me
adjusting to another family after I had already done that with my first host
family, but adjusting from my family in Florida. So as a result I got
homesick, and I’m not going to lie it got really hard at times. I was then
missing both my family, and my first host family. BUT, now I’m used to my
second family, I know them better, and I’m really excited to experience my
next 3 months with them! Also, on February 19-26 we are going skiing, during
the first week of our next school’s vacation, in the south of France; the
Alps! Super happy for that!
HAPPY NEW YEARS! Had an amazing time at a party with my rotary friends! We
ate, we laughed, and in the end we all counted down from 20-1 in French, and
BAM it was the New Year! We hugged and bisous every person there- just
another memory to store into my file of France.
All of Christmas, New years, changing families, was within my two week
vacation from school. But I did much more! Like doing shopping in Lille,
hanging out with exchange students, snowball fights, ice skating, hanging
out with host sisters and their friends, and just having fun. Since, I live
more in the country now I have decided to stop ballet, and try horseback
riding! I will although, continue with guitar! I just started horseback
riding and I love it! I’d never before been on a horse, but I wasn’t scared
and I didn’t expect my horse to be so calm and patient.
Food will always be discussed in my blogs, and I have a lot to report on
that like the new things I’ve eaten! SO. I ate duck, which I’d tried a
little before, but I actually ate a lot this time….and I liked it, but I
won’t chose to eat it any time soon. For Christmas here, it’s nice to have
rare meat, to show that it is a special day, which makes sense, right? Well,
for Christmas I ate ostrich. Yes the big birds, that are in zoos, had an
interesting taste…. And oh! This type of meat is very popular in the north
of France! It’s called foie gras, which is also duck, but its liver…. it’s
also an interesting taste. Also FROG LEGS! I ate them! Well…had two nibbles,
was really nerve racking, yet weird at the same time. I feel like I will be
trying a lot while I’m here! And daily, eating those delicious pastries,
nutella, crepes, mousse au chocolate, crème du chocolate, and a lot more!
Looking back on already the best memories of my life, I’m scared to go back
to Florida and maybe to find that my “home” in my mind has maybe moved to
France. And that I’d want to talk in French, but couldn’t. Or I’d want a
fresh baguette from the bakery nearby, but realizing I can’t have that. Or
miss my French friends and rotary friends that have been there for me, when
I needed someone to lean on. The weather, the people, the transportation,
the liveliness, the fashion..all of it will be gone. BUT, after realizing
all of that I’ve become happy also. I’m here for 5 more months! They’ll be
just as amazing if not more, and of course I’d come back for visits,
education, or living here. This beautiful part of North France, Le Nord de
Calais, has become my second home.
Always,
Lily
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STARBUCKS |
On Arc de Triumph |
just a little bit of snow! |
Christmas in Lille
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First family and I |
Our arbre de Noël |
Christmas Meal |
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Writing
down 2 months is even harder then it seems! So much has happened with me
here in France before and during the 2 weeks of spring vacation, and a week
of some of my family visiting me in France. France has been amazing through
that, the weather now has been gorgeous in Northern France, VERY RARE and
everything now is flying by!
The month of February mainly included me getting accustomed to my second
host family, and they are amazing! They are so kind, and I’ve had so much
fun with them! My host mom Catherine is a CEO of a store in France called
Rouge Gorge (like a smaller Victoria Secrets), and my host dad Damien is a
CEO of an insurance company called Vauban Humanis, working in Paris during
the week (Damien Vandrope-you can google him!!!). SO my host parents, as you
see are busy, and have very demanding jobs, so skiing without any work
connections was a blast!
Skiing in the Alps for a week at a station- The Orres was absolutely a
dream; the scenery, their house in the south, and getting to know my second
host family that much better was really indescribable. We arrived on a
Saturday night, and the following day started skiing- I was so hyped until I
remembered a year ago I only practiced snowboarding…and on Sunday the first
day of skiing I forgot how to stop or steer my skies. As a result, my host
parents and I agreed that I take the Ski classes 1. Learning fast, and
remembering those years of skiing in the past I got bumped up to Class 2! It
was harder, but I still wanted a challenge so got bumped up to Class 3!
Received my troisieme etoile (third star- takes years normally), and felt
accomplished!
I took the classes in the mornings and in the afternoons skied with my host
family! They were all amazing after doing it their whole lives, so they were
my motivation to step it up. The last two days, skied with my host sisters
and their cousin like speed demons! I liked going down the red and black
slopes- hardest!!! During the drive down to the south (10hrs) my host dad
told me all you do in the Alps are ski, eat, and sleep. I didn’t believe
him- but that’s literally all you have energy for and all you want to do
because you are so exhausted- plus is was like going back to the basics with
no internet or television; wrote about 50 postcards! My all time favorite
part though, was at the tippity top of the Alps on the hardest slopes, the
view…was to die for. A photo can only explain so much, and then the
sensation of going down the beautiful slopes, DEFINITELY going back there!
My second week of vacation, was basically relaxing, hanging out with
friends, shopping, and sleepovers! But what I was really waiting for was my
family! My mom, my aunt, my sister, my cousin, and Julia at our house now
form Brazil! They came Sunday March 6th- Saturday March 12th. Welcoming them
here in Lille at their hotel, because I couldn’t go to Belgium (out of my
district), there were some tears seeing everyone, but definitely tears of
joy. Sunday we had a brunch at my second family’s host house with my first
host family, and my host sister’s friend! There were 14 people, which made
it so fun. We talked about me first coming here, knowing basically no French
and how now I speak fluently and am always improving. Then, talking about my
funniest moments when I arrived, my accent, etc. It was great seeing all of
them together, the people I love in my life meeting people that are now held
so close to my heart.
Monday we went to Paris! Renting a car for a week was very practical, but
hard work with navigating through the big city Paris. We actually got
detoured for about an hour or so…but at least we saw all over Paris! The
weather was amazing that day, not one cloud in the sky! We finally found the
Eiffel tower and climbed up to the first level after eating lunch at a cute
nearby café. Afterwards drove around the Arc de Triumph 20 times finally
landing on the Champs Elysées street, parked, and did a little shopping. It
was a great way to end the day! Tuesday showed them my city Lille, had
breakfast at my favorite café showed them my favorite stores, shopped, and
just had a girl’s day- Me having a rotary dinner that night! Wednesday
brought them to a fresh food outside market, showed them my school- they met
some of my friends, and then introduced them to my exchange district! My mom
and Aunt had left and then it was just us teenagers seeing Lille and walking
around- that night showing my sister, my cousin, Julia, Jordan and Rachel
(friends) a night out in Lille! Thursday we went to the beach!!! The cap-gris
nez…was not hot or sunny BUT beautiful anyway with the strong winds, and had
a concert that night; KID KOWALA. Friday was Bruxelles, Belgium! It was the
first time I’d gone there as well, and it was gorgeous. Walking around the
city, seeing Grand Palace and shopping was a relaxing beautiful day.
Saturday morning was their plane, really hard time for me and my mom- VERY
HARD saying goodbye for a second time. I didn’t want any of them going, but
especially my mom and sister. I miss them all the time, but I know I’ll see
them again!
A week later, I still miss them like crazy! But I’m enjoying my last 2 and
half months left! School was really fun going back, everyone knew my family
had come, and my skiing trip, etc. Now, going back into routine school,
guitar, horseback riding, etc.…EXCEPT that this Sunday I change host
families!!! On to my third host family; I can’t even believe it, went by
super fast! I’ll miss my second one a lot, but I’m also embracing the change
too. I knew I’d change so it’ll be fine.. just the packing again- definitely
has gotten harder with everything I’ve accumulated over 7 months, especially
all the clothes and shoes I’ve bought!
Doing this exchange, I feel, really makes you appreciate what you had in
your life before. I never took into account that I was lucky for so many
things, topping it off with going to a foreign country for a year, realizing
that now makes me miss home even more in a way. Although, France has
definitely become my second home or even could become my home in the future,
with too many memories to count, too many friends to ever leave, too much
urge to speak French.. even my real family…I want to stay here longer then
only two and a half months and keep living my dream.
Always,
Lily
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Skiing view |
Just cool French ski 3 class |
Me, Alix- host sister, Vic- their cousin, and Juliet- host sis |
Their beautiful ski house! |
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French best friends! |
My mom |
Night at Champs Elysées |
Night out in Lille! :) |
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Coucou!
It’s weird saying I only have a month left…when in a way it seems like I
just arrived in France! That can give an example of how time really does fly
on exchange. I think it’s because we always have fun things or events
planned, and when you do something fun, time isn’t even looked at. Before my
12 day Euro Tour that just passed- no words to describe how amazing it was,
I moved in with my third host family and well I’ve really lucked out with
families because I love them too! I’ve been to the Beach and an Aquarium
with my district in France- eventful, with my first host family voyaged to
Tours (city on the centralwest of France surrounded by castles which are
breathtaking), A fashion show, Lille Muséum of Art, a Concert, Hanging out
with friends, all up until my Euro Tour on April 15-26 !
6 countries. 12 days. Paris, France. Strasburg, France. Munich, Germany.
Innsbruck, Austria. Verona, Florence, Venice, Italy. Monaco. Lyon, France.
Geneva, Switzerland. Dijon, France. Lifetime experience. Eating the best
food, making MORE lifelong friends, seeing some of the most beautiful spots
in the world, it’s as if it was magical. The most magical for me being
Venice. Extraordinary. Perfect day with sun everywhere, no cars allowed in
Venice, small stores everywhere, history everywhere, to die for tortellini,
everything!
FACTS on bus trips
Italy does make the most delicious pizza, you could just die.
Europeans bike everywhere, besides the French.
Everywhere is a tourist trap, where you want to spend money.
Pictures are taken everywhere, even in places where there isn’t
significance…its European!
Men are very good looking in ITALY.
Fondue is best in Switzerland.
You sleep your nights on the bus in the day, and live your day in the night.
Crying is guaranteed at the end of the trip…
And you want to do it all over again. Not just the trip. But your year.
There are way too many memories to count from my bus trip, knowing that I
had the time of my life should give a hint. I went with my best friends in
France, Rachel Scramstad, and Katie Head becoming even closer and meeting
our newsiest best friend Kelcie Wildeman, and many more friends! It was the
feeling I had when my mom left with my family…so much sadness. Within those
12 days we’d gotten so close, and I miss them like crazy, BUT it was time to
come back.
My 3rd host family is so great, nice, funny, and VERY different from my
others. Meaning that in my first host family I had a host sister and in my
second I had 2 host sisters well in this family I have 4 host BROTHERS!
Figuring that I only have a sister in FL, it’s been a whole other experience
within itself. Oldest being 18- Victor, then 16- Louis, then 14- Paul, and
the youngest being 12- Arthur. Although Victor isn’t here during the week,
studying in a dorm at college it’s pretty funny all the time. Things that
are different are they eat a lot, and for me to say that says something! To
say they like play station is an understatement. They’re hilarious without
trying. And overall just cutie pies! I have a dog, Balto; he’s awesome and
is a black Labrador who is ADORABLE and makes me miss my dogs even more. I
love running with him by the lake near my house, especially now that there
is beautiful weather all the time!
My mom and dad are coming on the 12th of May staying until the 15th, just
for the weekend! I was happy that my mom and everyone came, but my dad
didn’t get to come so at least this way he sees how I live, speak, etc and
how I’ve changed.
Also I’m really excited! On May 29th my host family and I, and their family
are all going horse backing riding on the beach! I guess those classes I
took when I was at my second host family will come in handy.
Thinking to myself that I’ve been abroad for 8 months already astounds me.
I’ve worked through language barriers, stereotypes, every awkward situation
you can imagine, and through a lot of obstacles I’ve changed as a person. I
think I’ve changed for the best, I’m more secure of who I am, and I just
have more self confidence then I ever did in FL. I still have one month left
plus 5 days! And I’m taking advantage of every hour, minute, and second.
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Last family change! |
Lille Muséum |
VENICE! |
Boulogne Beach with French district |
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Tours with first host family |
America in Austria |
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June 8
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I swear I could be dreaming right now. My last blog in France, 1 day until
I’m home, packing up the last time- but not to switch host families but to
GO home. But…I know I’m not dreaming and that this is reality. My dream of
living in France had
come true, and now my nightmare of leaving France will also become true. I
don’t know if I can ever explain how I feel right now, and I don’t even
think the other foreign exchange students understand…everyone’s year was
completely different. Sure we could relate with host family stories, new
foods we’ve tried, language barriers, but what about everything else we
experienced on our own? We grew independent though the things we did, we
changed with the people we met, and we went where we could with the time we
had. And emotionally was the hardest thing I’ve ever experienced.
My last few months have been amazing, like
my whole year. My mom, dad, and sister came! May 12-16th, it was
great. Typical family situations which seemed foreign to me after not really
experiencing them; getting lost in the car, mom taking pictures of you
non-stop, touristy activities, etc. Stayed in my city
Lille with them- 3
days; 2 nights, then went to
Bruges in Belgium-
day trip, and after Paris- 2 days; 1 night. Really fun showing them, it was
my dad’s first time in France SO I was more than happy to show them around !
We all went shopping in Lille, then visited Bruges, finishing in
Paris by taking a boat
around Paris and taking a million more pictures of the Eiffel tower.
Enjoying my last month in France with
Friends, and Host families has been great. It was my birthday June 3rd
so my third host mom hosted me a party- she wanted it to be a surprise..but
someone spilled the beans! It was awesome though! My host families are
amazing and I’ll always remember everything they did for me. Then
celebrating later on my birthday with Rotary friends, and with my host
sister! I also went horseback riding close to the beach with my 3rd
host family- SO fun!
Leaving June8th is an early date but I
have my reasons! Going home for one week, and then off to
New York for the summer
at a summer camp with
my first host sister- doing her type of exchange job, my sister, my cousin,
and friends (went to this camp when I was younger for 5 years). I know it’ll
be an awesome summer!
SO boy does time FLY! Here is the end. The
end of my exchange…the end of my year abroad in France. No more metro rides,
no more bus rides, no more crepes, no more speaking French all the time, no
more being the only “American” , no more French school…my life here will
disappear here. I’ll be remembered and missed, but then life goes on... we
all keep living. My exchange in France has been the most amazing year (10
months) in my life, obviously! But the thing is I can’t imagine any other
year better than this. My life here had become normal, although I part here
sad and longing… I know that I have another life in Florida awaiting me,
with friends, work, and well a future. But, as I look into my future I see
college and friends but I also see France. I know for sure that I will
return, who knows maybe on another exchange in college…who knows, maybe
living here for a while? Although that might sound crazy or farfetched.
That’s what I see and want. Knowing that France is my second home, who knows
what the future awaits for us.
Au revoir France….
I love you and will return
Je t’aime et je
vais revenir
Thank you so much Rotary, my district
directors (love you Roy), this adventure meant the world to me..... I can't
thank you enough!
Every minute was more than appreciated.
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