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Luba
Ayzenshtat
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2010-11 Outbound to
Ecuador
Hometown:
Saint Johns, Florida
School:
Bartram Trail High School
Sponsor:
Bartram Trail Rotary Club, District 6970, Florida
Host:
Quito Sur Rotary Club, District 4400, Ecuador
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Bio
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| October 1 "People are A LOT more
outgoing and touchy here. There is no comfort zone or personal space in
Ecuador." |
| December 27 "Exchange is like a
rollercoaster, really. There’s the really, really scary parts, and then
there’s the fun part. And once you hit the fun part, the really scary parts
won’t matter anymore, like they’re almost forgotten." |
Luba's Bio
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“Where's your will to be weird?” – Jim Morrison
Hola! My name is Luba Ayzenshtat, and I’d like to think
I’m more than your average teenage girl. I’m not afraid to make a fool out
of myself, I’ve always known what I want, and my heart is bigger than you
could ever imagine. I’m creative; I can tear apart an old article of
clothing that’s completely out dated and turn into something you would buy
in a store today, I can entertain a group of people with a simple bag of
marshmallows in seven different ways. I can always find a way to have fun
whether I’m sitting at home or sky diving.
I live in Jacksonville and attend Bartram Trail High
School as a sophomore. Instead of taking the standard junior year in
Florida, I was given the chance of a lifetime to spend my year in ECUADOR!
I haven’t always lived in Florida, in fact I’ve moved five
times before I finally landed here in Jacksonville due to my dad’s job. I’ve
traveled a good bit with my family, school, and church and have enjoyed
every minute of it! At home, I live with my parents, Leonid and Nina, my
brother, Thomas, and our dog, Charlie. I do a lot of events to help out my
community and donate as much as I can, because helping those who are less
fortunate than I am is one of the best feelings in the entire world.
I enjoy hanging out with my friends, playing sports,
meeting new people, reading (I’m addicted!), watching movies, going to the
beach, shopping, and pretty much every other typical activity a Floridian
teenage girl would enjoy. Well, here I am, just taking life one step at a
time and waiting to see what’s in store for me.
Thank you Rotary and everyone in district 6970 for making
my exchange possible! |
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It
still hasn’t really hit me that I’m here, even though every day I look out
of my window and see beautiful hills and the city I’m now living in.
Arriving in Quito was a shock within itself, getting off the plane in forty
degree weather and my host family and counselor greeting me in rapid
Spanish. I went back to my host counselor’s house from the airport my first
night in town because he wanted to show me around Quito and its surrounding
valleys the following days.That first morning in Quito I got up and was
told to get ready quickly for I was to go play tennis with my counselor and
others. Afterwards we headed out to Los Chillos for lunch, which actually
lasted until about 1AM. We went to his family’s house where I met about
thirty people, none of which spoke English. I walked into the house and was
greeted by a woman named Jhamel, who told me how pretty I was and asked if I
had a boyfriend, and of course the second I said no, she was gone in an
instance to go find her relatives. That weekend involved a lot of hugging,
kissing (greetings, of course), dancing, and trying new things, like food.
I had problems with my first host family, which is one of the main
reasons I haven’t been able to write a journal, but I’ve just switched into
my new family, and I love them to death. They are actually the family of my
host counselor that I spent my first few days here with. I feel at home
here, my brothers treat me like their siblings and I’m constantly busy with
all of them. I have five siblings, Giancarlo, Antoni, Alessandro, Stefany,
and Jhamel, but she doesn’t live with us, but is constantly over. Then I
have both of my host parents, who are adorable and are always shoving food
down my throat and forcing me to dance with all the boys. I eat every meal
with all of the family, which is a big and wonderful change compared to
always being alone in the other house. They all love to dance; they’re
friendly, outgoing, and just absolutely amazing to say the least. I enjoy
every day with this family, and look forward to more days to come with them.
Since I had problems with my first host family, my move to the new family
included me having to switch schools. I really did love my school, El
Colegio de Liga, but switching schools won’t be a problem for me. I made
many new friends in Liga, and plan on keeping in touch with everyone! My
last day at the school was sad; everyone was taking pictures of me and
getting my phone number if they didn’t have it already. Everyone all that
week was telling me “Luba, no vaya! No vaya!” and even some tried their
hardest to say it in English and would tell me “No go, Luba, no go, we love
you.” I haven’t attended my new school yet, but I’ll make sure to include
all of that in my new journal.
I’m making tons of friends here and am always busy! I never have a moment
to spare here, and sometimes I have to fit about five different plans into
one day because everyone asks to hang out with me and I can’t say no to
making new friends! The exchange students in the city are awesome; we always
have exchange student get togethers and visit all the thousands of malls and
movie theatres here in Quito. Within the next two weeks I’ll be in Manabí or
the coast of Ecuador for a Rotary trip with all the exchange students in
country.
There’s honestly just too much to say about Ecuador to sum it all up in one
journal. I could write an entire book only on my short time spent here
already. There’s so much culture and beauty within this country, that not
even words or pictures could describe it. You’d have to be here to really
feel it, and to embrace it. Exchange is like nothing you’ll ever experience.
It’s a mix of every possible emotion there is, and the biggest adventure
you’ll ever take.
Interesting and random facts about Ecuador!
· During red lights it is extremely common to see people perform acts for
money, or for the driver to get out of the car to take of his jacket or get
something out of his pocket.
· People will often ask “Do you like me?” or you will have someone ask you
“He wants to know if you like him” which I’ve finally learned to just ignore
and laugh at.
· If you don’t greet someone with a kiss on the cheek they look at you like
you’re from Mars.
· You can meet someone and within hours they’ll go around telling everyone
you’re their best friend. And they’re being dead serious about it. Rolly
Weaver, you were right.
· People are A LOT more outgoing and touchy here. There is no comfort zone
or personal space in Ecuador.
· It is SO beautiful here. There are mountains everywhere, and I can see
Cotopaxi almost every day from my very room.
· Lunch easily can last from 1pm to 1am.
· If you don’t know how to dance, everyone will force you to learn how.
Trust me.
· I never. Ever. Ever. Want to leave.
Thank you so much Rotary Florida and Rotary Ecuador for this amazing
experience… I’ve only been here a month but boy, I can’t wait for the rest
of this year. Thank you D6970, Bartram Trail Rotary Club, Daphne, Jody, Al,
Jack, Bill, and everyone else who has made my exchange possible. I can’t
thank any of you enough.

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To be totally honest, some days I forget that I’m an exchange student, a
foreigner in this country I now call my second home. I sometimes even
forget that this isn’t my real family, that’s how close we all are. My
host brothers and sisters treat me like a true sibling. We argue, we
throw pillows at each other, we laugh and joke, tell each other our
problems. It’s so crazy to think after 4 months I’m already adapted to
this country that used to be so foreign and new to me. I used to get
lost in Quito within minutes, and now I can navigate myself around town
like a native. I used not be able to laugh or understand the jokes my
classmates made, and now I can make some jokes of my own. I used to
truly feel like I’d never be able to open up to this new country and the
people in it, and now I have some of the best friends I’ve ever met. And
I can’t believe I’ll be leaving this new, fantastic, adventure in six
months.
Since the last time I wrote a journal, I’ve done a LOT of things! I went
to the coastal province named Manabi with Rotary and met every exchange
student in the country, I went to the oldest street in Quito named La
Rhonda, I was voted “La Reina” or “The Queen” of my school, I celebrated
Fiestas de Quito, and created a massive Thanksgiving party with all, or
most, of the exchange students in Quito. And during my vacations I’m
heading off to Mindo, Baños, and the coast of Ecuador with my host
family!
I’m not going to lie, exchange is not going to be fun every single day
and second of the year. It’ll be hard, and you’re going to go through
some things that you think you’ll never get through, that’ll never pass.
But trust me when I say this, you WILL get through it. I did. And so did
everyone else still in their countries and the wonderful Rotex that have
already returned. And everything that you did go through that was
absolutely horrible; there will be moments throughout your exchange that
you wouldn’t take back for a lifetime. Exchange is like a rollercoaster,
really. There’s the really, really scary parts, and then there’s the fun
part. And once you hit the fun part, the really scary parts won’t matter
anymore, like they’re almost forgotten.
There’s one thing I don’t think I’ll ever get used to or over here in
Ecuador, and that’s poverty here. You see so much of it every day, and
nearly everywhere you go, and it’s truly heartbreaking. It’s completely
normal to see an eleven year old boy selling candy or magazines on the
streets to help earn money for his family. Here in Ecuador, the rich are
incredibly rich, and the poor are incredibly and depressingly poor. Yet
no matter where you go, everyone has a smile on their face and something
nice to say. The United States may have more rights, but this country
definitely has more love.
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