
Leo- Outbound to Japan
January 16, 2013 I
have been in Japan and so far my exchange seems to be going fine. Getting
off the plane I felt there was a different atmosphere here and at the time
everything felt so foreign and different. I was excited for what was to
come. I met my first host family after baggage claim and we greeted each
other with some broken Japanese on my part, some English on their part and a
series of awkward silences and smiles since neither of us could really
communicate too well but we could still convey how excited we were. A while
later I arrived at my host home which was a comparatively large house
surrounded by narrow streets and other homes and buildings pressed against
each other. Surprisingly my host home stood off on its own and didn't seem
to be crammed against any other buildings. I had been exhausted from the
long trip and decided to relax in my room for a while after I had become
familiar with the house. Later that day my host family and I went over house
rules and things like curfews and such over dinner. There was a week from
the time I had arrived to Japan and the time school started for me and
during that week I walked around streets and explored. It was really strange
to see so many things so close together with the buildings built side by
side and the narrow streets that would eventually lead to main roads. I
guess this was partially due to being unfamiliar with cityscape and also the
manner in which structures are built in Japan: as small and efficient as
possible to have room for other things. Compact architecture aside there
were other differences like what side of the road cars drove on and all the
signs I wasn't able to read.
Near the end of that week my host dad and I
biked to my high school so I would know where to go but I was a bit
overwhelmed constantly looking in any direction and seeing something
different. Needless to say I almost got lost on my way back on the first day
of school. School life was alright and my classmates were all excited to see
a new face. Everyone wears a uniform and even though I was expecting this it
was still a strange sight for the first few days. I joined the kendo club
and at first it didn't seem to be anything too extreme. A week or two after
I had started school and the excitement of having an exchange student at the
school had died down I had developed a routine. Go to school, go to kendo
practice after, bike home and so on. Kendo practice had felt like it had
become more excessive after about a month but I still went.
During some weekends my host family would take
me sight seeing to a waterfall in the mountains 1 hour away or so. It was
great and I loved getting to see more of the area especially outside of the
city. I am still always amazed at the mountains every time I go by or
through them. Seeing something so breathtaking and massive and knowing that
there was none of that in Florida made we wonder what other things were
hidden in the corners of the world that so many have yet to see.
At the time my Japanese was very basic and even
still I struggle with it. This schism in communication did not negatively
impact me as much as I thought it would have but it was and is very
inconvenient. There were times when trying to comment about something that
happened that day with my host family was more difficult than it should have
been but this never seemed to bother either of us too much. At the end we
would put our efforts to make each other understood.
In the second half of the fall, the rainy season
had started and every day was getting just a bit colder and the sky was
always dark and or pouring rain. At first this was somehow very
disheartening for no reason other than it just appeared to be a gloomy day.
I quickly got over this dip of emotion and after the dark skies and rainy
bikes home didn't seem to bother me as much. So far aside from feeling a bit
down due to stormy weather is the worst if felt on the exchange and I feel
that its going pretty well.
Of course I will be constantly trying to improve
my poor Japanese as my knowledge of the language seems to never be enough
for any conversation that deviates from basics. If any part of this exchange
isn't going smoothly its my Japanese which I will be working on. |